Interesting High School Dilemma

<p>I was a senior last year (05-06) and was having a terrific year during the beginning. Up until January I maintained marks that put me well within the top 5-10% for my senior year.
However I have been suffering from clinical depression for a great period of time. I was diagnosed at the beginning of my junior year but it was a problem that stemmed way before that. Only now was I able to come out to my psychiatrist and parents about the issues or memories that troubled me. When I immigrated here to Canada from Hong Kong in grade 7 I encountered major bullying problems. I faced much discrimination and bullying. I regret even today how I kept quiet. In fact I've continued for 5 years with those memories and angry feelings boiled up inside me.
When it was finally the January of my senior year I cracked. At the time I had an extremely poor relationship with my parents and I also had frequent disputes with them. This obviously didn't help my emotional state and so in January, after sending off and completing my college applications, I bursted. I began binge drinking heavily. I began smoking. Ultimately my binge drinking led me to the point of staying at the hospital for 2-3 weeks. After that I just completely lost the will to finish school. I ended up not even showing up for my classes. I would just sleep for hours and hours every day. And so in the end I dropped out my senior year.
After this disaster my parents and psychiatrist agreed that it would be great for me to take a break. So I visited Hong Kong with my parents and spent much time with family. Although I continued drinking and smoking into the summer this visit really gave me the time to think and recuperate. After a while I realized how bad of a situation I landed myself into. I was even smoking. Something that I never planned on starting. In the end I opted to come back early to Canada and get my life in order. Right now I've sort of achieved that. I've quit smoking and I am currently preparing for a half marathon in October, something that I've always wanted to do as a running addict.
So here is a troublesome decision that I must make in the next couple of months. I am obviously going to continue my schooling and finish my senior year. Since the school that I dropped out from ran by terms I have no credits from my senior year meaning that I must redo a full year. Now, I did apply to some US colleges before and I was accepted at U of Michigan and waitlisted at Stanford. Here is the stunning aspect of my story. I only had a 1920 SAT with a gpa that would put me in the top 10% -- excluding my freshman year of high school. My freshman year gpa was extremely bad (top 30%). I am also a no-aid applicant since my father teaches at a public university, which has a system to support the tuition fees of his children. Anyways here is the ultimate question. Should I reapply to US schools? I feel unworthy of such an opportunity because it is like having a second chance, although not really a better one. I was also thinking of applying to schools like Rice, Pomona, and Cornell. Am I wasting my time? I already took the SAT 3 times with some minor improvements, because I thought I would never get into a situation where I must take them again. So I'm also not sure if I should take the SAT again this October... My head hurts from just thinking about this. Any advice would be appreciated.</p>

<p>Thanks for reading a really long post..</p>

<p>By the way, I'm transferring to a new high school for this senior year because we moved. I'm also a canadian citizen.</p>

<p>This is a major decision. I would highly recommend that you discuss this with your psychiatrist. Only you and he/she can evaluate whether you are ready to take on the additional stress of retaking the SAT/reapplying to school and ultimately attending college.</p>

<p>I already have. I compiled a very long journal organizing my thoughts and feelings. I've discussed it with my psychiatrist. I think I really have achieved peace of mind. I no longer take medications for my depression. And most important of all I no longer feel clinical depression. I feel ready to continue. My psychiatrist thinks so too.</p>

<p>You must have a major, unusual strength to have been waitlisted at Stanford. What is it?</p>

<p>No need to prove yourself, yayatime. You are clearly a very strong person. Definitely reapply. The fact that you overcame your experience is very admirable--do well this year in school and do reapply to the schools you listed. I recommend that you explain in your application what specifically happened. Don't mention the drinking and smoking--no need to get into the details because colleges will probably be turned off unnecessarily. But tell them about the depression and the family problems and the fact that you're now better and more motivated than ever. It's not every teen that can get out of a downward spiral. Good luck this year! Definitely retake the SAT and of course, reapply!</p>

<p>yayatime..I agree with MallomarCookie. Just wanted to make sure that you had talked this over with your medical team. Go for it!</p>

<p>Just wanted to say how much I admire a person who at your young age can come through such a difficult time, talk about it honestly, and then move forward. I agree with mallomar that getting into specifics about drinking, etc.on applications may not be in your best interest, but that you will need to talk a little about your depression and recovery. You might want to have your high school GC or an English teacher you really like read that particular essay for you and get some feedback. Your results from last year tell me that you already know how to write effective college essays. All of the colleges you've mentioned are excellent and if you feel strong enough to go through the process with US universities again, and your medical team is on board, you have no objective reason to feel unworthy -- only a recovery and spirit to be proud of. Good luck!</p>

<p>Thank you for your comments. I just visited the school I am transferring to today and it seems like I am going to have a fun year (no lunches on day 2 =/)
Anyways for a person in my situation should I not apply early to any schools since my GCs and teachers will not really get to know me well by November and since colleges won't see how well I am doing at this new school?</p>