<p>I guess this is a bit more like a rant than a question, but here goes. I've always shared different views than my parents about grades. They have that "If you don't have straight A's, then you will fail at life forever" mentality, but I don't think so. Trying your best is what counts, right? Well, that's what I'm doing. I have 5 A's and one B, in math, which I've never been the best at. And I know that as soon as the report card comes, they're going to be shouting at me about that B. Here we go again. "Look what you've done. Now you'll never get into college" and stuff. Is a B a horrible grade? Really?</p>
<p>For the record, I got that B on my own. No tutor. I could get a tutor, but then I'd have to tell my parents. If I tell them, then they'll look at the material and say, "Wow. This is easy. How could you not know this stuff? How are you getting a B in HIGH SCHOOL? High school is the easiest thing ever." I definitely don't like it when they downplay me AND my school, which has a pretty good reputation. Should I still get a tutor and tell them anyways?</p>
<p>You should tell your parents that B stands for Best.</p>
<p>Absolutely get a tutor! Just ignore their banter. At the end of the day, you’ll be less stressed and more successful if you get the help you need. And to answer your question, no, a B is not that bad if you are really trying your best. Personally, I will do all that I can to make an A in Physics this coming semester (just squeaked by fall semester), however due to the challenging nature of the class, I may end up with a B. As long as I know I gave my 100%, I’m okay with that prospect. </p>
<p>Truthfully, one B is going to have very little impact on your life. Don’t dwell on it, but do give your all and you may surprise yourself. 
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<p>P.S. I loathe math, so I’m with you!</p>
<p>A B isn’t bad at all. I agree with you 100% that high school is all about trying your best. I currently have a B in Honors World History. I hate history. Nothing really makes sense, cause and events, “war-starters”, etc. You’re doing fine. My parents used to be the same way. A B means Above Average. I wish you good luck.</p>
<p>A B? Say bye to Princeton and hello to your local state flagship school!</p>
<p>At the end of the day, you should “judge” yourself on how much effort you’ve put in. If you could have gotten an A but got the B because you slacked off, didn’t study, do any of the work, then you should feel bad. If you’ve felt like you’ve done everything you needed for that class and continued to work harder despite getting a B, then you shouldn’t be as bummed out because then you’ve reached your potential. But in this case, go for the tutor if you feel it will help. Your parents would willingly accept if you showed improvement as a result.</p>
<p>If you really want that A, keep working for it. It’s going to feel real good once you get it. But the most important thing is that you’re gaining a solid understanding of the material and gaining the right skills for college.</p>
<p>I think if you slacked and should have gotten an A, but just didn’t do the work, then it’s going to look bad. But if you got a B in a challenging class you really tried your best at, it’s not the end of the world. Having one B is not going to automatically kill your chances at a top school, nor will it destroy your life/happiness (unless you care waaayyy too much about your grades).</p>
<p>I got my first ever B last year in debate. (Everyone told me not to take it because the teacher is a tough grader-if you got a C, he told you that you were doing pretty well, but I decided to challenge myself and take it). Yeah, I broke my 4.0. But I also learned a lot, loved the teacher (he was really hilarious), and really enjoyed the class. I think that what you learned is more important than the grade.</p>
<p>Glad that you guys get me XD Thanks! Guess I’m gonna get a tutor, and my parents are gonna have to suck it up. :P</p>
<p>A B is not that bad. Since you’re getting A’s in your other classes you should be fine.</p>