<p>Okay so I see there is a bunch of threads by people who need advice.
Well I need advice about a guy!
Ok so there is this guy that I met 2 years ago. The moment I saw him I instantly had feelings for him. He is is like everything that I am attracted to. Well my senior year I didn't see him or talk to him a lot because he was at college.</p>
<p>Now I am going to the same college as him. Not because of him. It was the only UC I got accepted to lol. </p>
<p>So the thing is that we've hung out a couple times with friends and we always ended up alone talking about stuff. And back in HS some of his friends told him that I liked him and he said he couldn't do anything because one of his good friends liked me. (I know he wasn't lying because I knew the guy that liked me lol) Like he said he has a good time talking to me and that we are going to have fun in college, but we never text or anything. We only talk in person. Idk if he just hates texting or he doesn't want to text me because he doesn't like me.</p>
<p>Even my friend says that he is so different and it is hard to tell if he likes me because he just might be friendly. I personally think that I don't look good enough for him. I look like IM 5 and he looks like a college guy.</p>
<p>Sorry if this is a dumb question lol. I don't really have a huge problem, but I just need thoughts from random people I guess.</p>
<p>uhh well the only way to know if he likes you is either a) ask him b) have a friend ask him or c) flirt like hell and see if he responds. so do one of those and you’ll find out. if you don’t wanna do those, then just become better friends with him then maybe something will happen down the road.</p>
<p>If you look like you’re 5 then that’s the reason. Guys want to hookup with something to be proud of or else they get made fun of for messing with grenades.</p>
<p>I’m pretty shy and pessimistic/unconfident and respectful (?), so I pretty much won’t act on anything unless it’s pretty explicit that she wants to do something.</p>
<p>Like I won’t tell a girl to call me unless she says she will. I generally won’t be the first to text, and if I am there’s a very good reason (aka like I ran into a HS friend of this girl or something). I won’t make out with a girl unless I know she wants do that. I generally won’t dance with a girl unless she asks me or makes it clear she wants to dance with me (I’m respectful in that I won’t just jump in without asking, but I’m a wuss in that I won’t ask a girl, though I may hint at it). Even if I want to do all of the above.</p>
<p>ugh it sucks. pretty much the only girls I can get with are those who take the lead, which is the way it’s played out so far. If they’re more normal or at all like me, I bet they think I’m probably just not into them or some have gotten somewhat frustrated that I’m not taking the lead. </p>
<p>So maybe this guy is more like me? I also like long talks alone with girls. Just one other person there completely ruins it for me.</p>