<p>Right now I'm a high school junior, so I don't know exactly where I'm going to go, but I have started to think about whether I should join a sorority in college. I haven't had hardly any friends in high school, but it doesn't really bother me too much (I don't care what they say, southern hospitality ended with the baby-boomers as far as Houston is concerned). With any luck, I'll go out of state for college, and I'd like to change my image a bit and actually have a social life, but would a sorority be a bit too extreme for a girl who hasn't had a sleepover since 8th grade? </p>
<p>Btw, I swear there's nothing wrong with me or anything, and I have plenty of friendly acquaintances who I hang out with and joke around with at school, I just NEVER do anything outside of the hallowed halls</p>
<p>When you start college, you could always rush whenever you can. You may or may not get chosen by a sorority. If you do, you have until initiation (usually April/May/June of the next year IIRC) to decide. This is a great chance to “test the waters” of sorority life. Once you’re initiated, it’ll be very difficult to drop or become an inactive member.</p>
<p>Once you get to college…you’ll know. I was exactly like you in hs, didnt have many friends that I hung out with a ton outside of school but not really a lot outside of school. I swear I’m not a wierdo, I just didn’t…lol idk! I had a close knit group of like 5 friends and I would just hang out with them mostly. I just didn’t like putting myself out there. Anywho, all my friends from hs rushed in college…so I tried it. Didn’t work for me…I am doing pre dental and I just couldn’t find the balance between that and school…plus the girls in the group were super fake…lol. but its different for everyone…just know you don’t have to have a ton of friends in college…I only have like 8 or so lol. And as you move along you’ll make more friends as you go, I promise! Private message me and I can tell you more about my experience and advice to you, but don’t worry about it yet! Either way, I think you’ll end up happy! If you want to make friends in college there are also SOOO many different clubs you can join from religious, athletic, majors and more! Sororities aren’t everything and sorority girls don’t really get much credit around the campus as you would think, its a big place! :P</p>