<p>kvo, well stated. </p>
<p>I might add a couple of points. The Jesuits are educators and were historically educators of the immigrants in urban cities. The 28 Jesuit colleges in the United States are almost all urban schools. While all their campuses are beautiful, some of their surroundings are not. That includes Seattle University. </p>
<p>People choose Fordham for many reasons. Its New York. Its Jesuit. Its academic reputation is stellar. Its business connections unparalleled. But its also deeply involved in the Jesuit mission of helping the underprivileged, and this happens with internships in the Bronx, as well as some major highly respected graduate programs in social work, social justice etc. </p>
<p>We are not New Yorkers. Fr. McShane tells parents and students Fordham is transformational. He is not bluffing. It is. </p>
<p>People can expect to be changed by Fordham…for the better. Coming from a privileged suburban setting is common at Fordham. Its students are from high income areas of Northern New Jersey, Long Island, Connecticut, Boston, Los Angeles, San Francisco-Bay Area, Phoenix, Dallas, Houston, Atlanta, Charlotte NC, Suburban DC…and some of them are minorities and some are caucasian. </p>
<p>The Bronx is eclectic and can be and should be embraced. Culture shock can be expected, and you power through that by reaching out, making friends, and learning that change is a good thing, even if its uncomfortable.</p>
<p>If you are not adventurous, prone to homesickness and shy, and dont like large cities and urban realities, then Fordham may not be for you. (Though some people in this category will be counter intuitive and force themselves to change…and grow…my kid was somewhat in this category…)</p>
<p>Freshman year is a year of extreme change at any university. Independence is a slap in the face and you either sink or swim…the workload, the dorm dramas, the cafeteria food, the multitude of personalities, huge school in comparison to your high school. Fordham does that on steroids. Its a VERY academic school…and very competitive. Not cutthroat and vicious…but the kids are not there to be mediocre because they know that only the best students get the best opportunities. </p>
<p>We went through a bunch of emotions and experiences Freshman year. Almost a crash and withdraw/transfer…homesick, health issues, dorm drama, boyfriend issues and all sorts of culture shock. We (parents and kid) worked through it, faced the music, found a path to success and come March it was blue sky and we (she) never looked back. A transformation occurred.</p>
<p>I strongly encourage your application if you are up to the challenges and being so far from home and have the credentials to be admitted. Its a stellar school…perhaps one of the hidden diamonds in private education in the United States. An AMAZING place. No school is perfect. No school is a panacea for everyone. </p>
<p>Yes, a visit is important, particularly if you are admitted and go to the admitted student weekend/reception.</p>
<p>Fordham is near and dear to our hearts. It is distinct from Holy Cross, Georgetown and Boston College. (Or Fairfield for that matter). </p>
<p>If you want to become a truly independent and self confident and self motivated person, and embrace the Bronx…and all it offers…then Fordham welcomes you. </p>
<p>It IS a safe campus. Fordham Road and Little Italy (Arthur Avenue) are safe if you are smart…go in groups, dont get drunk, and dont loiter in places. Around the main restaurants on Arthur Ave, there is really nothing to fear. They depend on Fordham students, faculty and families for a lot of their business.</p>
<p>Urban campuses are like this: Saint Louis University, Marquette, Seattle University, Providence College (Dominicans), Saint Josephs, Loyola Md., Loyola Chicago, Loyola New Orleans, Loyola Marymount.</p>
<p>If you want a bucolic suburban setting, there are other choices for you. </p>
<p>52% of Fordham students are women, and a very very high percentage of them come from suburban settings. You will be fine. Come ready to work very hard and be transformed.</p>