Thanks @eb23282. I’m only vaguely familiar with the specific ISL schools; my kids have attended NEPSAC schools. That said, I think the 2 leagues are fairly similar – some schools put more emphasis on their soccer team, including recruiting, some less. But the level of soccer is quite high – higher than regular high school for sure, maybe as high as regular club soccer. Keep in mind that many schools have international kids through programs like Right to Dream (although that specific program is not common in the ISL). With the NEPSAC schools a few bring in a lot of PGs and seniors, and that might especially be the case for the next year. You’ll want to find out if a school you are considering does that. In my opinion it isn’t a great thing (although it does mean the soccer level is very high). I’ve seen a talented 9th grade boy make Varsity in 9th grade – quite an achievement at a soccer powerhouse – but not get playing time and lose confidence. That lack of confidence pretty much destroyed the playing career of that boy and he’s not playing in college, which was his dream.
My youngest son is my most serious soccer player, and he went to a mid-table school – not a powerhouse, not a disaster. It is rare for a 9th grader to make varsity even at a school like this, but he did, and became a starting center back who played every minute of every game (as center backs do). Obviously, that means 14 year olds are playing with 18 and 19 year olds, so that’s a question to ask yourself – can your son hang with older players?
Being on a strong club team means – obviously w/o knowing specifics of your son or the school in question – that there’s a very decent chance he’d make the varsity team. Is your son a starter on the club team? The strongest player? Yes to both means he probably would make varsity and might be a starter.
One piece of advice, if you haven’t done so already, is to reach out to the coaches at the schools your son applied to – I am sure they’d be interested in hearing from a good club player, and at a minimum it can’t hurt, but may very well help with admissions.
Once you are deciding between schools, besides figuring out how many PGs/seniors they bring in, you will want to figure out what the coach philosophy is on playing time. The 1st coach my son had took seniors who did not play a single minute all season on that team. That makes for a terrible team culture/morale. The new coach did not give equal playing time, of course, but did play everyone when he could and that made a huge difference. He also didn’t take kids who could not play at that level.
A resource for more information is THE NEW ENGLAND SOCCER JOURNAL. They cover prep school soccer (as well as club and college) pretty thoroughly. If you spring for a subscription there will be many articles about specific schools/players etc.
Thanks for giving me the opportunity to talk about soccer! There have been no games/scrimmages this year so I am at least happy to talk here. This was long, the tl/dr version is: it is rare to make varsity as a 9th grader, and rarer still to be a starter, but it can be done and does happen.