I've been dismissed, trying to appeal. what are my chances?

<p>I just finished my first semester as a freshman at my school, after failing all of my classes (12 credits) i recieved a letter of dismissal. I messed up, and I haven't been able to eat or sleep since getting the letter. I appealed, but won't find out the outcome for another week and a half, it is tearing me apart! Unlike the other appeals I've seen on here, instead of requesting an official appeal letter my school just asked a few questions. They are as follows (with my answers). Any feedback would be really helpful, what are my chances of staying?</p>

<p>Did I take full advantage of the services that the University offers? (For instance, did I meet with my advisor? Take advantage of my professors' office hours? Go to the Learning Center?)
I am extremely regretful that I did not take full advantage of the resources available to me; I should have reached out for help when I needed it. I was embarrassed that I was struggling and avoided my professors when I should have communicated with them instead. I realize now that I should have met with my advisor as well, and done everything in my power to keep this from happening.</p>

<p>What happened this semester that undermined my studies?
The only one I can blame for this dismissal is myself. This past semester I had a hard time keeping my grades up for a few reasons. While I understand that there should not be any excuse for my grades being this low, I appreciate the chance to explain the circumstances I was in that led to this. I left for school on a very bad note with my family; things had been really bad at home for a while. So without much contact with my family I felt very alone, and because of this I spent too much time trying to build a support system of friends away from home. This was my first time being away from home, and I was overwhelmed by the new freedoms of dorm life. I neglected my studies, which was a big mistake. During my high school career I always succeeded in my classes with apparent ease, so I never had much academic discipline, or time management skills. I did not try to the best of my abilities, and I take full responsibility for my actions, but if given the chance to be reinstated I will reorder my priorities and make school number one.</p>

<p>What will I change if I am allowed to return?
I am desperate to stay as a student here at ________, and to prove to the board, my family, and myself that I am capable of doing well at this school because I know that I can. I am ready to do anything to stay here and stay focused on my education so I can graduate. If I am reinstated for the next semester, I plan on taking all the tutoring services provided by the school in classes I need help in as well as going to office hours and talking to my professors about ways to get the grades I want. I will do anything it takes and make my education my most important factor. I will do this by creating a study schedule, attending all of my classes, completing every assignment and getting the help I need early. I think it would also be a good idea to attend counseling provided by the health center for emotional help. I have spent a lot of time at home for breaks, and have mended many issues with my family. I know that if given the chance to return I would be leaving home on a positive note this time around. My motivation to do well will be at an all-time high if I am given the chance to prove myself, because I would never want to be in this situation again. </p>

<p>What other information would you like to share with the committee?
Please recognize that these grades do not mean I am a bad student. I am a good student who had one very bad first semester; I got off on the wrong foot. I take complete responsibility for my mistakes and do not plan on repeating any of them. I love ________, and to graduate with a degree from this school would mean a lot to me. I am certain that if reinstated I will succeed. I deeply hope that you will grant me a second chance. Thank you for considering this appeal.</p>

<p>Do you want me to edit your essays? As for chances, we don’t know. Every school has a unique policy for appeals. My guess is some are more forgiving, and others couldn’t care less. I will go through your essays if you want me to though.</p>

<p>I think I’d omit the bits about not having discipline or time management skills. That’s kind of clear from the fact you were dismissed (I don’t mean that unkindly) and to underscore it may not help your cause. The rest is good, and fair. Good luck.</p>

<p>Do you mind me asking what school this is?</p>