<p>the heart. It is that desire to serve, to put self above the rest.</p>
<p>Which is not something that can be taught. Nor can character.
Sure, you can have 1,000 times the ethics classes, but it all boils down to what that one person chooses to do... when nobody else is looking, when nobody else is ever going to know.That is not a matter of training. It is a matter of selfless choice. It is a matter of a fertile heart and capable mind discerning right-from-wrong and following that harder, narrower path.</p>
<p>LFWBdad, you have always been a wonderful resource and encouraging far beyond what you realize. I have always listened intently to your counsel, and have been reassured by it.</p>
<p>USNA69, you too are a font of wisdom, although it is often a prickly path to pick out the salient bits, and discard the obvious bias. I don't mind your being passionate about your cause, but being myopic and denigrating other paths detracts from some really useful information you've been able to provide to prospective candidates.</p>
<p>My son and I have visited Quantico a number of times, as we have friends there. Son was introduced to some of the best leaders I have seen -- mission first, competence, respect, openness. Without fail, they have come from USNA, from ROTC, up through the ranks, and (surprising perhaps only to you USNA69) from USMMA. There was NO PREPONDERANCE of better leadership of one vs the other based on where they attended college. In fact, NO CO cared WHERE you went at all... it was 'can you do this job?'. </p>
<p>I am proud of all of these kids at all of the academies. They are taking on challenges that dwarf the commitments and accomplishments of kids are 'regular' colleges. They, every ONE of them, have committed to serve this nation (hence the term Service Academy).</p>
<p>Even the ones who try, and fail... those guys are the ones have attempted more that their typical college counterparts. Or maybe they had a romanticized view of what things would be like, and found the actual reality not to their liking. Bravo to them for making the hard decision to remove themselves.. better now than in a tense situation where lives are at stake.</p>
<p>(Good Lord. I can't believe I've done this.
I have precious little time as it is; I'm getting dirty and the pig is enjoying it. Sheesh)</p>