<p>I am graduating early, and I am a really big advocate of it, but it is only for certain people. I have always felt years beyond my peers, and for the entirety of 10th grade I spent my days dreaming about college. I had already decided where I wanted to apply, what I wanted to major in, etc. by... probably around March-ish of 10th grade. I thought I was stuck for two years, but then I realized that I had the ability to graduate early. I went through the procedures and I am now in my 11/12th grade of high school. I only had to take one extra class (social studies) in order to do so, so I am having no problem whatsoever. It was an extremely hard decision to make, and it has been met with much animosity from my peers - I cannot count the number of times a day during the first month or so of school that people came up to me and proclaimed how they couldn't believe I would make that decision and that they didn't understand it, could never do it themselves, etc. It drove me nuts for awhile, but luckily its died down now. Even still, at least once or twice a week people come up to me (and these are people I either barely know or only knew from elementary school and such). HOWEVER, on the other hand, every single person who has already graduated high school (guidance counselors, teachers, parents, friends, coworkers, even my therapist) have agreed that it is an excellent idea. So with that combined, I have really had to look within myself and know that it was the correct decision for me, and know that I just had to ignore those who didn't support it. There are a ton of tradeoffs as well. I don't get the pleasure of looking around at graduation and knowing i"ve known these people for 18 years. I don't get to relax a little senior year. I don't really get as many chances to receive roles in musicals/dramas (a hobby of mine). It also turns out, unfortunately, that I am missing several opportunities - classes that are offered next year, leadership positions in clubs, etc. However, in my mind, for my mental health, it is all worth it. Even still this year, I have been unhappy in high school, and I am counting the days until I graduate. And another thing is, I probably could have gotten into more prestigious schools if I stayed four years in high school. However, the industry I am going into after college doesn't require Ivy League prestige or perfect SAT scores. I believe I am approximately at the same rank in my class I would have been if I graduated on a normal schedule, perhaps I would be a few slots higher, but I am still i the top 10%, so in my opinion it is not that big of a deal. If it is important to attend a prestigious university, graduating early may not be the best route.</p>
<p>That being said... you don't sound very well prepared. If you missed deadlines, then you don't have a college to go to. So what is the point of graduating early? In order to graduate early, you have to have a plan, and a very good one. If you haven't made the decision by now, it seems there is simply no decision to make. However, I wish you luck, and if you (or anyone else who is questioning graduating early) has any questions, feel free to PM me.</p>