<p>I’ve considered bringing a friend along. Believe me. But that would make things awkward. I would never let anyone be the third wheel. I will bite the bullet. You guys have no idea how deep this is. It’s like I’m in the nazi camp fearing from them because I’m a jew. Why make it so I’m weak? So, I die as I’m in the process of meeting someone across the country? I think it’s worth it. I think it’s worth revolutionizing. I just need motivation. You guys don’t understand. I won’t date another girl because of this.</p>
<p>if u love her fly at to texas and meet her. you can always say you met at a store or something</p>
<p>And unhealthy relationship? You mean the superficialness of it all is unhealthy? Okay, wanting a girl for sex is healther than wanting a girl for love? Wow! Romantics have suffered because of your kind. You are dead for not liking a girl because of her existance. I can’t believe this ****. I can’t believe the world has come down to this. This sucks! I guess I’m alive! More than you are for wanting everything out of love! Even if it kills me!</p>
<p>I want to so badly. But i need to get my own place first. Then I can meet her. But I just wanted advice because I am kind of scared because i have never done this for anyone before. I just want motivation.</p>
<p>you guys dont understand, for this to happen i will have to disregard my parents, my relatives, and some of my friends.</p>
<p>I say that you should meet her in person and then decide. Get an internship/job during college and fly over. Or she can visit you.</p>
<p>Wow.
Okay.
Uhm.</p>
<p>Well…
I wouldn’t start calling her your gf until you actually meet her - more than once.</p>
<p>Also, you don’t have to tell people how you met, exactly. Just say you were chatting online and got to know each other. Leave out the whole ‘romance chatroom’ thing. That’s kinda…creepy. Maybe later on if you two hit it off it could be something funny and cute to tell people but right now that would just be…kinda weird. Especially if that is the one of the first things you tell someone.</p>
<p>Since you havent even met her yet I would cool it on the telling people. Also, it would make more sense to me if you went to see her during spring break or something. </p>
<p>I dont really get why you need to get your own place before you can meet her.</p>
<p>It took you 2 years to get her number?</p>
<p>Is it really so difficult to get on a plane and go meet her?
It should cost your around $200-300 for a round trip, so I suggest you start saving some money and go visit her for the weekend.</p>
<p>The thing that is raising flags for me here isn’t the fact that you two have developed a deep emotional bond via internet, but it’s that I believe you two haven’t experienced each others’ negative sides. When you’re on the internet, it’s easy to appear happy/loving/secure, but when you actually meet somebody in person you may realize that certain things about them seem to tick you off, or that you two always get into arguments. I have an ex who dated a girl online, and then she lived with him for the summer. It ended up being a disaster, because they fought too much, and he discovered things about her he never noticed when they were chatting online.</p>
<p>I’m not one to say, but to me it sounds like you are infatuated. Enjoy the romance, but don’t let yourself get carried away with it and do something stupid. But yes, I do think you should splurge and visit this girl. Good luck.</p>
<p>…I love college confidential.</p>
<p>Honestly.</p>
<p>Calling raze=easy now.</p>
<p>she’s a man. internet relationships are funny like that.</p>