<p>So, my boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 2 and a half years and we are both going to college this year. We may be going somewhere close and I think whatever happens with happen for a reason. I'm not planning to break up or anything I'm just going to see how it goes. Most relationships don't work out but what do you guys think? Anyone been in the situation?</p>
<p>Granted I was going into 11th grade when my GF left for college but here is my insight. What happens is that one stays faithful and the other does not, in my case she didn’t stay faithful and when I went up to suprise her one weekend I caught her doing the horizontal mambo with another dude. That hurt… Badly…</p>
<p>wow i’m sorry. Well hopefully he would be faithful. Hes been cheated on before so… idk but were both leaving and both experiencing something different so it’s going to be difficult.</p>
<p>^ The thing is though at long distance, it’s difficult to stay faithful when you have limited at best real (i.e. skype, telephone DOES NOT COUNT) contact…</p>
<p>I say go for it. If it works, great. If it doesn’t, oh well. Nothing to lose really</p>
<p>People are going to meet more people in college and then everything becomes diverse afterwards. So it all depends on how the relationship goes.</p>
<p>So does anyone think it’s a bad idea to stay with someone you have dated through highschool into college if thats the first and only boyfriend you have ever had.</p>
<p>^ No. </p>
<p>I am now engaged to my first serious boyfriend. (The others were in middle school so I don’t count them). </p>
<p>We started dating when I was a freshmen in high school. I am now almost done with my first year of college. </p>
<p>As long as you guys stay faithful and keep communication open then you can do it :). Just stay strong!</p>