<p>Ok well this is kind of embarassing, but I dont know what to do.</p>
<p>So i really like this one guy in a couple of my classes but he is like really, really shy and whenever I try to talk to him (ask him a question) he answers in as few words as possible. (I also am working with him over the summer)</p>
<p>So one of my friends wants to give him a note saying something along the lines of (my name here) doesnt know about this so dont tell her, but i think you two would look really cute together. You should hang out sometime.</p>
<p>Now, I asked one of my guy friends (hes very outgoing) and he said that he would probably try to get to know the girl, but i'm afraid that it would make work awkward... </p>
<p>Tell me what you think i should do
1. let her write the note (with my help)
2. stop her from writing the note.</p>
<p>Definitely do not let her write the note. If he is as shy as you say he is, the note is just going to make things even more awkward between you two. Just try to drop some hints every now and then. He’ll catch on.</p>
<p>The shy ones are always a tough case because you don’t know if they are just really shy or not interested. I would agree with the post above.</p>
<p>2!
you should try talking to him electronically (email, IM, text, facebook) Shy people are more likely to open up a little if you aren’t face to face. Then try working on stuff in the class with him. The more he gets to know you, the more open he will be. As you talk with him you can just drop some hints.</p>
<p>Drop hints, and then go for the kill. Seriously, the reason we guys are often shy is because we fear we’re misreading the signs. So make it easy for him. :)</p>
<p>Yes, I know personally, along with many other guys, that I will not ask a girl out unless they truly show interest, or if I am very interested in them and make it clear beforehand.</p>
<p>Make sure your hints are clear, especially if he is as shy as you make him. I’m outgoing, yet the fear of “mistaking the signs” even overcomes that. So it would be a million times worse for a shy person.</p>
<p>Most “shy” guys are only shy around people that they do not know, but usually are pretty outgoing around their good friends. That’s why I think that writing the note would be disatrous and that you should get to know him, then if after he opens up more you still like him (the opening up process can be quite long) then you go for it.</p>