Our daughter is a senior and has been accepted to these 4 schools. We are from CT and she is interested in the science (biology) or health field. We are looking for some input on selecting from this list of schools. This is our first daughter to go to college and we have 2 more behind her starting college over the next 6 years. So being the first of 3 we are concerned about spending too much on the first daughter and either causing us to go into debt or limiting the selection of schools for our younger daughters because we overspent on the first daughter.
My daughter wants to go to a school in or near a city and where sports are fairly big so she can root for the teams. She doesn’t want a commuter school.
Here are my comments on these schools:
Loyola: She received decent merit aid for this school and it will cost us about $40K per year. This is at the very highest end of the scale for us without having to take out any loans. I really like the school. We went to the accepted students day in February and I was impressed by the academics. It was a snowy day and they actually ended the day early while we were on our tour so we weren’t able to finish it. So my daughter didn’t get a really good feel for the campus. We plan on visiting again.
Seton Hall: She received a very nice merit scholarship and was accepted into the BS/MS physician assistant program. This school will cost $30K a year which is a very comfortable price for us. My daughter is a little hesitant about this school for 2 main reasons, which are actually contradictory. She doesn’t feel the academic reputation of this school is on the same level of other schools (unfortunately I get the feeling her friends/family aren’t as impressed). The other thing is the PA program is supposed to be very difficult where 80% of the admitted students don’t make it through so she is worried she may not make it. So if she goes here for the challenging PA program and doesn’t make it she will end up at a lesser academic school as a non-PA major. She isn’t 100% sure that she wants to be a PA either. The other negative is we understand there are a lot of commuter students here.
Muhlenberg: We haven’t received the final numbers from here but we expect it to be somewhere close to Loyola in cost. I love this school but she isn’t too keen on it. She doesn’t like that its not near a major city. We also got a feeling there were 2 types of students, science majors and performing arts. This doesn’t appeal to her socially. I feel academically this is comparable to Loyola although I think it has a little lower of an academic reputation than Fordham.
Fordham: This is the school she wants to go to. I really don’t know how she got into this school based on her SAT (1220) and GPA (3.4). She loves the location, academic reputation and campus feel. The problem is this will cost $53K per year which is way beyond what we can spend without getting loans. We do not want her to end up having outrageous student loan for a bachelors degree when she can get a degree without having to have any debt. Being 17 years old she has no clue about debt and doesn’t really understand the long term ramifications.
So here we are. I am looking for any input from parents/students that had to make a similar choice and what their decision was. For students or parents of students going to any of these schools, please let us know how its going and if you have any positive or negative comments.
The main questions:
Is going into debt worth it to attend Fordham?
Should we just take Muhlenberg off the list because of the fit or are we missing something that would encourage her to go her?
Should we only focus on money and go with the cheapest option in Seton Hall?
Is Loyola the best compromise?
Thank you for letting me vent and any comments you have.