<p>I'm going to be a third year community college student and I'm feeling pretty miserable. I lost so many friends for two years and now I really have no friends at all to chill. I have look at joining a club and sports, but then I realize I'm not that good in athletic department and there no club that sound exciting or interesting. Talking to people in classroom can go so far, but not far enough to have a stable relationship. Beside studying, how can I maximized my visit in community college and make new friends there?</p>
<p>You can always start your own club. You should also consider that you are purposefully sabotaging your potential for friendships in an attempt to avoid the effort, emotional and otherwise, required to make a new friend. No offense, this is what it sounds like. </p>
<p>Obviously, that behavior is not unique to you. You should just try harder and acknowledge whatever emotional barrier you are putting up.</p>
<p>take classes where you have to be in groups consistently</p>
<p>talk to people in your classes more. </p>
<p>join cross country. you dont have to be good AND you’ll make some really good friends. AND you’ll get into shape!</p>