<p>I think it helps to look out at the garden. Daffodils bloom early. Roses bloom in early summer and the magnificent chrysanthemums bloom in fall. We know that brains are under development until age 25 -- so it seems that we should be saying to our young people "Bloom when you will. If it seems like now is the time, go for it -- but if you need some time to come into flower, that is absolutely fine as well. We don't have to put a flower on a treadmill to have it blossom into its glory."</p>
<p>What a calming sentiment. I was a late bloomer . . . and my journey has been a wonderful one.</p>
<p>Sorry, Mom2three... I was following two related, but separate threads... and I misposted...</p>
<p>Mea culpa!!</p>
<p>This is a very individual decision. Does your son gain JOY through working hard, and learning all he can? Will he be successful (As or Bs?) Will he have time for one or two meaningful extra-curriculars? Then go for it!</p>
<p>Is your son taking these classes so that he can graduate from college early? That's a myth circulating in our high school, but as you might be aware, many schools just give you a pat on the back or "electives" credit.</p>
<p>Does he have some particular schools in mind? Why not contact an admissions counselor, and see what the schools expect?</p>