My Girlfriend wants to take another guy to prom

<p>I might just have to come to your county and kick somebody's a** if that true(either yours or your teachers), unfortunately that is impossible(and it would be most likely yours, since you are doing something wrong if you are not even close to being in top 29%).</p>

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I might just have to come to your county and kick somebody's a** if that true(either yours or your teachers), unfortunately that is impossible(and it would be most likely yours, since you are doing something wrong if you are not even close to being in top 29%).

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<p>I have the feeling that the only reason you're even posting in this thread is to show off your "higher than 3.75" GPA, and to make other people feel inferior. News Flash: It's not working.
And why the hell would you want to "kick someone's ass" for trying? I'm not doing anything wrong, I'm just kind of naturally dumb.</p>

<p>And this thread didn't get off topic at all now, did it?</p>

<p>Before I give any advice, I want to say that a GPA requirement for prom is one of the most idiotic things I have ever heard. I think there was a thread on here awhile back that talked about how some kid's principal decided that <3.5 GPA kids = miscreants, and imposed a GPA requirement to get into prom in hopes of lessening illicit activity. Prom is a high point of many peoples' s***ty 4 years and to take that away in an unfounded manner is absurd.</p>

<p>OP: Maybe your girlfriend just wants to go to prom. It only happens once or twice for most HSers. Confront her, not through text or FB. Ask her why she wants this and doesn't value your relationship enough to do something with you. If she gives a sincere and reasonable answer, let her go. You can deal with rumors. If not, she's just too selfish. You're too good for her. It's sad that a relationship of 3 years would have to deal with something like this.</p>

<p>I have to agree about the GPA requirement. That's really awful.</p>

<p>Ok since we got over the point, now lets discuss the amount of hard drugs that were sold at your prom before 3.5 gpa rule was enforced.</p>

<p>^ i seem to get the impression that you think that anyone who has under a 3.5 gpa is mentally retarded/a drug addict. that's plain stupid. just so you know, you're not some hotshot either.</p>

<p>OP: talk it out. but speaking from a girl's perspective, prom is kinda a "must" for hs. esp. senior prom. i understand why you would be jealous but.. yeah. idk.</p>

<p>haven't read any of this thread, but tell her to go with a gay guy.</p>

<p>You should ask her if she'd be okay with you spending the night with another girl. Same concept.</p>

<p>Maybe your GF wants to go to prom. I mean, it only happens once. It's not fair for her to have to miss it just because your GPA isnt high enough.</p>

<p>Granted, it seems like she handled the situation oddly, with the other guy and stuff, but still.</p>

<p>^Yes to above. I can completely understand why your GF would want to go to prom, even though you can't. It is a big event for a lot of girls. Maybe you could compromise, she would be allowed to go alone with a group of girlfriends right (by the school I mean)? That way she could still go and have a good time and it wouldn't be a worry for you.</p>

<p>about the GPAs though,
it is kind of funny how his girlfriend could keep a high GPA + get around + have a 'secret whore' life + be all cool w/ other guys
she makes use of her time
her boyfriend should learn from the best, apparently, if he's spending 5-8 hours on hw because obviously she isn't.</p>

<p>she could be taking less advanced classes.
and geeeeeez. this is depressing. another thing that explains the suicide thing.. or at least..yea..........................</p>

<p>im like depressed from reading this. and from that thread about the girl who found out her crush didnt like her.</p>

<p>:(:(:(:(:(:(:(</p>

<p>lol.</p>

<p>and that is ridiculous. compromise man. compromise!</p>

<p>If it's her senior prom, I can easily understand her wanting to even if you can't make it. And really, if you think she's going to cheat on you or something, chances are she's done it already (I mean, why would she wait 3 years? lolol). So personally, I don't think it's a big deal at all, but if you're so concerned about it, you guys need to actually TALK about it instead of texting things like "not a good idea" and "ya". This doesn't seem like a situation that would be TOO hard to work out if you two just talk about it and compromise.</p>

<p>didnt read any of this thread, but recall that girls have a strange disease that causes them to view prom as the 'ultimate-social-romancey-HS' experience. Fellow men realize that prom is a school sponsored dance with bad music, cheesiness, and clothes that are impractical because they take more than a minute to take off. </p>

<p>You could be kinda pathetic and ask a friend to keep an eye on your girl and make sure she doesnt cross platonic boundaries.</p>

<p>It's not the senior prom. It's the junior prom. </p>

<p>I didn't go to her locker like usual today. At lunch I caught Gregory staring at me, and as soon as I looked up, he turned his head away and tried to act natural.</p>

<p>I think he has intentions to hook up with her. Why would he be staring at me? wth?</p>

<p>Don't blame Gregory! That's like Jennifer Aniston staying made at Angelina and completely ignoring Brad's involvement. </p>

<p>Obviously, there's a whole in your relationship. Call her ASAP and try to meet her in person. It looks to me like she's trying to acknowledge a break up without saying it. It'd be fine for her to go to prom without you (though the fact you can't bring a date regardless of GPA surprises me because you can generally bring people from other schools) and with some girlfriends, but the fact that she found herself a date is crossing the line. Maybe everyone else had a date and she felt left out. Maybe she wanted prom photos to show to her kids, with a corsage and a boy on her arm. But you could have taken pictures with her beforehand, and she can't just go with another guy.</p>

<p>So call her and ask her what's up. I have a feeling there'll be lots of pauses and waits and the inability to say it. But, barring any strange revelation on her part, I think you're broken up with.</p>

<p>WUT junior prom? Punch the girl in the face and tell her that it's over. Obviously she wants to hook up with Greg.</p>

<p>Wishwash: As an adult, my impression is that you have already lost your "girlfriend". Move on with your life & forget about her--or, at least, pretend that you have forgotten her. Unfortunately, this is part of high school life. Just be a gentleman & move on.</p>

<p>oviously he'd want to hook up with her, he's a guy... but just make sure you know her intentions :P
so did you ever talk to her?!</p>

<p>Yeah, so, update us on the girlfriend thing! have you dumped her yet? lol.</p>