<p>Quite a bold title there, I know.</p>
<p>And I put this in the Prep School Parents thread for a reason; I would love some advice from all you boarding moms out there.</p>
<p>But honestly, my parents are making me want to pull my hair out with all of this boarding school stuff.</p>
<p>I was so worried about my SSAT scores (I got an 89% but my math is 68% which literally lowered the whole score down.)
PLUS My mom kept lecturing me about how NONE of her friend's genius children ever got accepted into a GLADCHEMMS. AND my brother got about the same score as me on the SSAT, applied to The Hill School, and didn't get accepted. So obviously, I was constantly worrying. Not to mention that I'm an ORM; Boarding Schools must get thousands of applications from Asian girls. International students and ones from America.</p>
<p>But after reading some of the posts here on CC about how the SSATs are only one part of the application process, I had gotten calmed down a bit. Until I told my Mom everything about the SSAT stuff and she simply said "Those kids with SSAT scores that aren't at least 95% are probably rich and their parents probably donate a lot of money to the schools or they're George Bush's relative." I had been constantly hearing this Blab from my Mom and Dad, and now they're just making me even more upset.</p>
<p>They keep telling me how I "need something special" such as a special EC. And honestly, I think I have enough ECs! I'm not some girl who has won millions of piano competitions, or published 3 books, but that doesn't mean I'm "not special"! I KNOW I'm different than others. I'm not your typical Asian "Math Genius" I love poetry, photography, literature, and animals. I believe I have enough leadership and commitment in my current activities. I've been doing Girl Scouts since Kindergarten, I play 2 instruments, in string ensemble and the school orchestra, in Model UN, and I've played fencing for 3 years! I don't understand why she keeps comparing me to other Asian geniuses who got rejected! I'M DIFFERENT THAN THEM.</p>
<p>But what does my mother say? "You need to earn your Silver Award for Girl Scouts in order for that activity to even count!" And I HAVE been working really hard by sending tons of e-mails in order to achieve my award BEFORE next December. "You don't have enough activities! You're never going to get in!" "You need to win this fencing competition in order to get accepted!" "You got an 89% ON SSAT AND THIS PERSON GOT 97% ON SSAT AND THEY DIDN'T GET ACCEPTED!" And I know she's only saying it because she truly cares but to be honest, I'M ALWAYS GETTING MORE STRESSED OUT AND NOT TO MENTION I HAVE SCHOOL STUFF IN MY HANDS. AND MY MOM WANTS ME TO TAKE THE SATs IN 8TH GRADE SO SHE'S ALREADY PREPARING ME. I always feel like I'm going to crack and I have had nowhere to vent because I know no one personally who had ever gone through the same things I am going through.</p>
<p>Just please, help me elaborate more on my tough situation. That was a pretty loud vent post there but I just really needed to get that out of my system.</p>