Need a little help decision making.

<p>Assuming I'm accepted to Vandy, I definitely have some worries about attending. I'm pretty well rounded and social. All through high school, everybody at my school considered me to be preppy. Greek life has always seemed like something I would be interested in; it is just I am not very interested in alcohol. Vandy is a dream school, I just don't know if I would fit into the Greek system. If I didn't join the Greek life, I think I would always feel like I am looking in from the outside. Any past experiences or an inside view from current or past students would help. Thanks.</p>

<p>I actually talked to my alumni interviewer about this because I was concerned about how much Greek life effected student life at Vanderbilt and he said that it really wasn’t a problem. Like you, I enjoy having friends, hanging out, and being social but I don’t like alcohol, drugs, or any parties that involve that kind of stuff. He said that although he was a part of Greek life for the last two yrs of his Undergraduate, it wasn’t a big deal and he knew a lot of people that had a great time and enjoyed student life at Vandy without belonging to a frat or sorority. While Greek life was nice, regular student life at Vandy was just as great and he told me not to worry too much about it. I know that a majority of the student body at Vandy belong to Greek life, but it’s not that bad.</p>

<p>If I remember the numbers correctly, about 40% of the undergraduate body is involved in Greek life, so there’s a majority that’s not involved.
As a freshman not involved in Greek life, I would staunchly argue that there is certainly not a lack of things to do outside Greek life. It’s seen as a big part of Vandy life, but for those not in Greek organizations, it is certainly not even close to being half of what’s available in terms of activities/things to do.</p>

<p>Because Vandy holds rush in the spring, you’ll have an opportunity to make friends from your dorm and other places before anyone decides to rush. You’ll maintain those friendships even if some of the other girls decide to join sororities. But, you don’t have to drink if you don’t want to, and it’s certainly not part of the sorority rush process. And, even if you don’t join a sorority, you can still attend some frat parties and formals (if you are invited). Also, during your freshman year, there are activities offered in the dorm and elsewhere on campus every weekend. I wouldn’t worry about this now.</p>

<p>I should have been more specific in saying fraternities would be what I would be interested in. All feedback is appreciated. Thank you all.</p>