<p>recently just moved to a top high school of my state... almost killing me those days. let's not talk about the school work part cuz as long as i can handle them. but ihave no friends at all!!!! since i'm a sophmore and everybody's so freaking about their grades and not even care about making new friends.i tried my best to approach someone first but that just not works. they already have their groups maybe since middle school. i seem like a loner ...but i just can't figure out a way to do that.i tried new sport and some clubs. damn, after that people just go straight home doing homework or what soever.
any ideas so far? or should i just stay alone and try to focus more on my SATand APs not mention about friends cuz i was thinking ,it takes a lot of time to be with new friends ,you have a new relationship with them u have to spend time in it. and after let's say senior year ur not gonna be talk them forever. i know it's really cruel but what should i do? i can understand others situations cuz i have tons of work to do also.
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<p>I totally know how you feel. I had to move to a new school also during my junior year, though. It's good that you're joining clubs and sports. join more! smile, be friendly and keep talking to people. if you see someone that looks friendly, introduce yourself. Friendships take time and all you can do is be patient. if it gets to a point where a sufficient amount of time has gone by and you still can't seem to make friends, make friends in the lunch line. it seems pathetic, but hey it works! and how could u possibly survive high school without any friends? sats and aps are important but you also need a social life, too. Good luck! :)</p>
<p>ya its really hard coming to a school where ppl know each other...but seriously just focus on ur grades i mean it is just school, just find someone to hang out with at nutrition and lunch and you should be fine</p>
<p>i moved to a new district in sophomore year and only now in senior year am i really starting to make friends; time is really the answer. it's tough</p>
<p>You cannot make new pals overnight. It is no big deal. Do you still keep in contact with your old pals? I hope you do, in this day and age, one can keep in touch with anyone online and all of that. </p>
<p>Are you involved with anything in your community at all? You could make new pals by joining a club in your community. </p>
<p>Also, have you ever read any Norman Vincent Peale? He wrote some neat books about how to make new friends and how to stay positive while trying to make new friends. </p>
<p>Ultimately, it is all cool. You can make new pals over time:)</p>
<p>i'll be your friend napova.
so, if your ever feeling sad + am like " i have no friends "
you can be like " steph from new york is my friend and that's all that matters."</p>
<p>My problem is that I have "friends" just no one close. And it doesn't feel like it's going to get better. Does anyone know what I'm talking about? It feels so fake.</p>