So, after getting into half the Ivy League, I was disappointed to have to turn them all down because of poor financial aid. Fortunately, Notre Dame offered me a very good deal (less than half the cost of the Ivy League). So I intended to go there, and I enrolled in late April.
However, a couple of days later, Yale finally responded with a (second) review of my financial aid–and they offered me a decent price that makes it more affordable. They also extended my deadline to make a decision and enroll.
Now, it’s May 4, and I’m stuck between the two. I went on a visitation weekend at ND in March and loved it. I’m Catholic and relatively conservative, so the environment and form of education at ND is fantastic. I also loved the people and the culture there.
Yale, on the other hand, I have not visited. I didn’t go to Bulldog Days because I was let down by financial aid. So if I’m interested, I’ll have to visit very soon – probably this coming Monday. Yale is a top 3 national university, so turning it down is a very difficult thing to do, especially when my financial aid package is affordable.
My drawback is this: It took a month of arguing and multiple reviews for Yale to offer me a decent price, and I know that the price will most likely go back up in future years due to my father’s fluctuating income. So while next year will cost about $32,000, my junior or senior years could cost about $50,000. Notre Dame’s formula placed me originally at about $25,000, which is significantly less and entirely affordable, and I can expect it to remain there throughout college.
Paying for Yale in future years could happen – it’s a bit of a strain and their formula is flawed, but my family could make it work.
I’m a chemical engineering major, most likely seeking admission into medical school following college. If I end up deciding against medical school, I am almost certain I will end up in graduate school regardless; potentially for engineering or business. So, the cost of graduate school is also a factor in this decision.
TL;DR:
Notre Dame: Catholic, friendly, specific extracurricular opportunities, already enrolled, and consistently cheaper (with a more trustworthy FA office).
Yale: Top university, strong academics, growing science/engineering program; financial aid could vary dramatically each year. Haven’t visited, deadline to enroll extended.
If any of you have experience in college selection, I’d love to hear your input. Thank you.