<p>I think that by having the drinking age set at 21 frats become the central party place on campus. Drinking since its not going to stop would be better to be out in the open whereby it could be monitored. Admittedly I attended a small college but drinking was openly allowed yet regulated and there seemed to be far fewer problems. This allowed no group to control the party scene and kept kids from wondering off campus to find parties. Prohibition during the 30’s nor has the 21 year rule stopped drinking. Drinking hasn’t stopped in the high schools either. Its just not Keg parties as they were in my day but instead Vodka parties that have gone further underground away from adult supervision. </p>
<p>I think alcohol complicates the reporting issue because a whole load of kids are going to get in trouble because drinking is illegal. Not only do the friends have to worry about the rapists going after them but everyone on campus who drinks being angry.</p>
<p>As for the individual who gets raped it is common for them to stay silent for years. Its so traumatic they do not wish to relive the event and it takes a long time to come to terms if ever and to return to some semblance of normalcy. No one wants to relive trauma and going through the court system telling your story to strangers and loved ones is reliving it. And if the evidence is lacking where it comes down to a she said he said scenario the risk is great that the case will be dismissed, and worse yet sued for false accusations bringing a whole new trauma to the trauma that already happened. The decision has to be made as to what is best for the victim. Furthermore our legal system is set up in such a way that those on the stand will be grilled no matter what the case is regarding and being grilled about a humiliating sexual assault some people just can’t do, nor should they be forced to. </p>
<p>And if you were to ask your daughter daily if they were raped in all likelihood they wouldn’t tell you because of the shame they feel. You would hope they would but in reality it just doesn’t work that way.</p>