I totally agree with @soozievt --please stay on! My own S is due to graduate this October, as is my D from her MA program, and I really would value folks’ stories and wisdom.
I’ve been following @soozievt’s D for a long time, as my oldest S went to NYU Tisch ten years ago (he left the program and is not in acting) - but this is where I first read about @soozievt’s talented D and her journey. @soozievt has been generous to share this journey post-grad as well. And it’s been not only exciting to read about it,but it’s really helpful. I well remember her D right out the gate, and what struck me then, and now, is how hard she worked, at multiple projects. There are no guarantees whatsover, in any of the arts, but the one essential quality is hard work and perseverance. You don’t get anywhere without this. This is perseverance without any immediate reward. It’s so difficult. As a writer myself, I think rejection is the hardest part of being an artist, hands down—many people do give up, as @halflokum says, because it’s just so hard. For many people, there is only so much rejection you can take, before you start to wonder if you’re crazy for doing this, and if you really wouldn’t prefer working in a steady job. (And that can end up being part of the journey.) If you look at the bios of even the most successful actors, the majority includes years of perseverance without substantial reward, sometimes a decade of this. One young woman I’ve heard of that I’ve been recently so impressed by - Jo Lampert - persevered for ten years non-equity, never giving up, being true to herself and her type, taking and giving an interconnected range of roles and jobs --and has now landed a major role at the Public. If we just looked at her one year post grad, that wouldn’t have told this story.
And @halfokum - whose D is hugely talented and definitely not afraid of hard work - brings up another essential quality, one that is easily overlooked–generosity. I totally agree with her, that what goes around comes around. I mean, generosity is a great quality by itself, but it’s really important to give if you want to receive. I’ve seen this so many times, that web of interconnectedness.
@AlexaMT is such a great example of a talented young person who gives – I’ve also been following her generous posts since she first began at Coastal Carolina! Congrats to you @AlexaMT for that upcoming equity card!!!
For what it’s worth, my kids were given the advice of staying regional a while back, when my S was a regional child actor. There is definitely a strategy of starting out in a regional market, where you have ties, and where it is a teensy less competitive, building your resume, then branching out from there. You can even end up being a successful regional actor. I’d think this would especially hold for those in colleges with strong regional markets. But as @halflokum points out, NYC is also a great place for building connections. I’m thinking there’s no one right path, and it also depends on your goals. I do have to say that the common advice of creating your own work can be daunting, particularly if you don’t have money. But I’ve seen so many actors build from that in unexpected ways. I mean, even if you’re not multi-talented (my D, for example, doesn’t write songs or plays - at least now- nor does she dance or sing much), there are still ways to collaborate and build your work. She herself was given the advice, from Northwestern’s Acting For Film mentors, to build your work via YouTube and other video sites. I guess we shall see…
So my short response in my long post is I’d love to share and learn from others’ journeys! And congrats to your D, @jeffandann , and best of luck to all.