<p>I agree with Dani's message....there are many roads to one's goals and there is not one "ticket" to get there. I think an assumption is being made that if only a kid had X or Y opportunity or X or Y amount of money, he or she could get into Z. I don't look at it that way. If I did, I could say, if only my child had gone to performing arts high school. If only my child could have had acting classes. If only our state had all these various theater events for high schoolers. If only we lived in a bigger area where there were more theater opportunities. I just would not think in those terms. Someone could turn around and say your child went to private school and it even had a few drama classes. Your child has a mom who is a music/voice teacher. Your child lives where there are dinner theaters and professional opportunities and various auditions (often I know of maybe one show per season in my region to even try out for). I have NO reason to think this way, however. I know kids from ALL walks of life going into this field!!</p>
<p>Is a summer program like the one my child went to a guarantee of success?
Not from what I can tell. I know someone who has played a lead every session she has ever gone there and she only got into ONE of her BFA programs out of many auditions. Does everyone have to have a LOT of money to go far with this? I know someone who went there on full scholarship and has now gotten into several BFA programs and is going to go to one of the top ones in the country. My child's classmate at my rural public high school, who is a refugee from another country, who lives in a subsidized apartment, who has only been in school productions, and has done one summer of a program, is going to one of the known BFA programs in MT. My child is on financial aid as is the girl she is going to room with at NYU who is from VT as well and who also went to Stagedoor a few times. By the way, Stagedoor does not prepare kids for college auditions. If I made some logical step of X program gets you to Y...I could assume that if only my child went to a precollege MT program and got training in college audition prep (none of that happened at my child's program). Her summer program, in part, was an opportunity to be in many theatrical productions amongst other talented kids who shared her passion. However, if she lived in a state maybe like yours, there would possibly be local opportunities all summer to do that very thing, as your D has done many local productions. We live in an area where many kids do not even go to college. Many who dance at our studio do not have much. Our studio does not have these expensive costumes I hear about in other regions of the country....rather they charge a modest fee and then mothers help sew costumes too. </p>
<p>Some kids have had voice training since they were young. Again, I would not assume THAT is an advantage. My child began lessons in seventh grade. These are just examples. I read the list of award winners for NFAA...many went to well known performing arts high schools.....and then there are some like my child who went to some unknown high school, a school that never has even heard of the NFAA awards and does not even know she won one, nor likely cares. </p>
<p>Kids come from a variety of backgrounds who go into this field. While I would agree that some training is needed as well as stage experiences, there is a wide variety of backgrounds in this regard who then go onto college for a MT program. I think it is Theatermom's D (who goes to UM) who had only been in a few shows before she got into college. </p>
<p>As well, one can't assume everybody else's finances from a little bit of information. For one to assume that someone went to a summer program so they are well to do, is just that, an assumption. That would be like me assuming someone who went to private school was rich. There is more to it than on the surface. </p>
<p>So, I would shy away from analyzing that if someone had only done one particular experience, then it was a ticket in. I know kids, even VERY VERY wealthy ones, who went to SD, who did NOT get in their favored BFA programs. And then I know kids from modest means in my very own community who have gotten in. It still comes down to talent and what happens in an audition room, as well as some luck no doubt. A kid could enroll in X summer program, be it SDM or CMU, or what not, and still not get into any college program. The program my child attended was not a stepping stone to anything, nor did we ever send her there with any goal of that sort in mind. She picked it one summer (as a gift in fact from someone else, not us) cause she wanted to go to camp and do theater with other kids. That was the reason at age nine and still the reason now and she is already IN at college. </p>
<p>So, in closing, just like your family has pieced together various lessons and theater opportunities and schooling, so have families like us, but perhaps it contained different pieces, but pieces yet the same. </p>
<p>By the way, I have NO expertise in this field whatsoever. I am not a music or voice teacher as I think you mentioned you are. As my kids have participated in various activities over the years, we followed along and just learned along the way and supported their interests. I do not know that much more about this than soccer, ski racing, or a myriad of other things my kids have been doing over the years. I just read, connect with others like on here, and go with the flow. It is not like we live among others who are going for this either so we are on our own to learn about it. I'm simply a mom who sometimes wears a theater hat, a band hat, a tennis hat or a soccer mom hat, or sometimes a very warm ski hat (LOL). If you had told me when I had kids that one of mine would go into theater, I would have never have guessed. As they tried out various activities, one of mine just kept going and going with this one and pushed us into getting more and more opportunities. It never was our goal. She has driven us (though I drive her literally all over in the car, lol). Definitely had no clue when this really got going but like any parent, ya learn along the way. I am sure you would agree on that one being a supportive mom yourself! </p>
<p>I happen to think your own daughter has been quite successful both before college and now even with her college quest. She tried for one school and is going there! That is great odds. Had my D ONLY tried for the first school she had auditioned for, she would not be going! My feeling is had your own child auditioned for more schools, given the tough odds, she'd have gotten into more too but does it matter? You can only attend one and luckily it appears she has some great programs to look forward to next year at her selective college. In my view, she has done great!
Susan</p>