<p>Well, I guess we can agree to disagree on this point. However, please donāt make the argument that my experience is an outlier and that there are an insignificant number of unhappy people at Columbia. Thatās what I meant by looking at averages and not taking my experience or your experience as indicative of what Columbia has to offer. Students come into college with different expectations, and that may explain how weāve viewed our experience. </p>
<p>Also, Iām not the stickler whoās trying to get to point B with all my energy. If anything, Iām much more a slacker (copy homework, cram for exams) and I try to have as much fun as possible. confidentialcoll and admissionsgeek, I think the dichotomy in our experiences is indicative of the hit or miss social experience at Columbia. Either you know people, get invited to a ton of parties and have the network to make a lot of friends, or you just get left behind unless you put in a huge effort. Once again, Iām saying that Columbia is like real life; I imagine starting in a new city where I have a small network of friends. The school isnāt providing you a campus or even that much space. </p>
<p>I honestly believe, as do a few other alumni who post, that Columbia lacks a campus community. Besides our empirical observations, I really feel that it makes logical sense as to why Columbia doesnāt have a vibrant community. Iāll jot down a few ideas and please feel free to refute them. Look, I"m not looking to whine about Columbia. I am trying to counter the misinformation spread by the admissions committee about a campus community combined with NYC. The two ideas are a bit mutually exclusive, that there are only a finite number of hours in a day and it heavily depends on what you do with it.</p>
<p>1) There is no space on campus. Try to host a couple friends over to your crappy single in Schapiro. Lounges, good luck. 30-50 people share a lounge in Schaprio/Broadway and try to relax with a beer in it. Thatās right, war on fun.</p>
<p>2) The area is quite dense. Itās not that common to run into undergraduates on campus, considering there are 14,000+ graduate students. Sure, you can go to Heights or 1020 but really itās a bar scene and not too many parties that youāll get invited to unless you know the right people.</p>
<p>3) Itās NYC. Thereās always a sense of getting from point A to point B. Itās an intense school and thereās quite a bit of energy. </p>
<p>Columbia isnāt the small liberal arts college in the middle of nowhere where you have to make friends and interact with the community to have fun. Therein lies the problem, there are so many options in NYC that the campus doesnāt need to be on the top of your list, especially when there arenāt that many open parties or that much space. Iāve had better parties in my basement; itās nothing against the people, itās just that what normally would comfortably fit 30 people in the suburbs now would fit twice that number, and even then the party isnāt open.</p>
<p>Honestly, my advice is not to use college confidential as your number 1 source for information. I wish I went to a HS in which students actually gained admission to top universities so I could ask questions. My friends are now resources to high schoolers trying to make informed decisions, and word of mouth is much stronger than any brochure or rant on college confidential.</p>