@thealternative: While I did not go to U of T - that’s a good guess and it was definitely on my short list. I chose to go to Boston for undergrad.
@DreamerMom: You are very welcome. The one thing I failed to mention above was how surprised I was to be homesick - I was so ready to go, I didn’t consider how I was going to feel once I arrived - but, I was HOMESICK. My mom made a surprise extra trip down to visit me (a few weeks after Parents’ Weekend) and we had a wonderful time exploring the city, dining out with my new friends, and just hanging out - that made a huge difference for me.
As for the ‘odd’ experiences - it is hard to feather out what was due to my age VS other factors. Some of the odd experiences that stand out are:
(1) needing a classmate to rent a hotel room for me when a huge gang of us travelled out of town (made me feel like a ‘little girl’ but no one else cared);
(2) getting really sick and having to go to the University Health Care facility VS an in town doctor bc of insurance (so make sure uni HC is well staffed in the evening and that the HIPPA forms allow the health care staff to discuss things with you),
(3) not being able to open a bank account until Parent’s Weekend because my parents needed to co-sign my application (who knew? Although, if she is staying in the same country, a new bank account is probably not necessary),
(4) lack of driving experience and not feeling totally safe alone in a taxi (mitigated by great public transport),
(5) difficulty getting internships off campus (but the profs had great opportunities on campus),
(6) difficulty getting well-paying jobs off campus (but the on campus jobs were AMAZING - library, registrar, admissions, cafeteria, RA (which paid AND covered R&B),
(7) age difference & lack of experience with romantic relationships (this one just is what it is)
(8) it is difficult to find a good fake ID when you are 16 and the drinking age is 21, so unless there are clubs where you can get in to dance/listen to music while underage but not be served, that age gap might sting a bit
As for my career - I am no longer in the workforce but I found that the tech world was a great place for me - I worked in transportation (FAA), healthcare (CDC), telecom (AT&T), and finally consulting (E&Y). My age was only a challenge for the first job - but I imagine she will find a way to get her foot in the door and then knock 'em dead.
Again - best of luck, keep an eye on her, and let her fly because it sounds like she is ready