<p>I’ll probably regret jumping into the fray, but here goes . . .</p>
<p>I have worked at 4 public universities (not to mention having been a student at several others, including a top-ten private) and parking has been a major issue at all except one public. There is a shortage of spaces (at my current university I have to arrive at least an hour before working hours begin in order to park “in the same county”), the fees to park are generally very high (I’ve heard of universities where the yearly fee approaches $1000 for faculty/staff), and, as a result, parking enforcement is draconian. Students, in particular, are notorious scofflaws when it comes to parking so the parking “nazis” (I hope I don’t offend by using that term, but that’s what they’ve been called at most places I’ve worked or gone to school) are quick to ticket.</p>
<p>It is unfortunate that prospective students and other visitors get caught up in this mess, but it’s hard for schools to prevent. Most schools do provide good info on their web sites and as has been discussed on this thread, it’s wise to follow their directions. Schools that have lots for admissions or provide parking permits in advance are great, but at many schools this is just not possible. There are just no spaces available. And parking often is run by another branch of the university, or, increasingly, it is privatized so some company is managing it for the university. As a result, university departments have no control or influence. At my school, for example, we were unable to get a parking space for the author of our freshman read last year when he was addressing our entire freshman class. We were outraged! But there was nothing we could do except arrange to meet him off campus and drive him to campus ourselves. </p>
<p>As for the harsh verbiage on the OP’s ticket . . . that’s standard at universities. Remember, the ticket writer doesn’t know who you are . . . that you’re a prospective student and we should be nice to you. It was more likely that you were a student who didn’t buy a parking permit as required and is trying to park for free.</p>
<p>And for the staff member in Admissions who wasn’t sympathetic . . . although if that person was working for me, I’d expect a different attitude (believe me, everyone in my office is VERY sympathetic when parents complain about parking problems on our campus - we know it sucks!) some people who have to deal with parking issues themselves (or with visitors) on a daily basis, can get cranky about the whole thing. Try to understand.</p>
<p>I understand why the OP is upset but I wouldn’t throw the baby out with the bathwater. Parking is a pain pretty much everywhere and if the OP’s S like GMU, give it chance. It’s a good school (getting much better all the time).</p>
<p>You can appeal the ticket (I’d bet they’ll cancel it) but if you think that you’ll never go back to GMU, you can toss it. Unless the State of Virginia treats university parking tickets differently than the states I know, you’ll never hear from them about that ticket. </p>
<p>Sorry you had a bad experience, but as you go through the college experience (from visits, to orientation, to attendance) be prepared for more parking angst, pretty much wherever your kid ends up.</p>