<p>Of course we can have fun without drinking. What the boy meant was "If you are looking to get into a girl's pants who you don't know, then you need a drunk girl." This isn't always the case, but a drunk girl is much more likely to "have fun" with a stranger.</p>
<p>eh, i'd rather leave the pants on.</p>
<p>i think know what parties the original poster was talkng about-the kind where people come mostly to dance, and they play hip hop music and have djs. most of those that i have gone to (and didn't have alcohol) were hosted by university organizations, and held in student buildings (ex. a party i went to at Boston University that was hosted by the Caribbean Student Organization). In the boston area, every couple of weeks a school will have one of these events; they're usually not hard to find (most of these parties will be publicized on facebook/flyers), and tend to cost about $5 per person until a set time, when they no longer let people in, because the parties get crowded quickly. usually there is alot of grinding and freaky dancing there, as with most hip hop playing parties. i hope i answered your question.</p>
<p>dancing is fun. esp. when a cute boy you wanted to dance with comes up to you without you having to ask him. i love when that happens. lol.</p>
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I also have a problem here. Whenever I'm at a party I can't get myself to dancing. I'm shy and probably not that outgoing, but I really want to change. I just don't know how. I want to be able to dance but when I see other people dance and grindin I just think how it's basically sex with clothes on or dry sex as my friend calls it. How can I go from not having the guts to dance to wildin out? Or is it perfectly normal to not dance at parties? If so what else is there to do if you're not on the dance floor, because generally that's the big thing at parties, the dancing.
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<p>Unfortunately you can't do much about it, except let yourself go. Perhaps go in with the mentality, "Who gives a **** wat others think, im gonna enjoy myself". Believe me, you are not the only one who often wonders the same thing. Alternatively, drinking always lightens you up, and the more you drink, the more your way of thinking leads towards what I mentioned. The most important thing is, as hard and strange as it sounds, is to simply let yourself go and avoid contemplating the situation. When you start thinking, "What if's" begin creeping up in your mind, and with that comes doubt, fear, and the shyness factor. Oh and finally, dancing and 'grinding' isn't as fulfilling as it might appear to be, and in fact it gets boring after the first half dozen times. The truly entertaining things are the after-products, if they come at all (which they often dont). Then again i'm only 17, so you might be better off asking some 21 year old, with more experience, their take as well.</p>
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but if you do want to dance which it seems like u do Balmes, its as simple or difficult as u make it. all u gotta do is check out who you'd like to dance with, perferably their alone, with out another dance partner, just go up and grab their hand and be like "lets dance". honestly its that simply, i guaranteee itt. trust me the admitance rate is higher then all the ivy's combined which is like over 100% !! just be confident, and the more you do it the more confident you'll be, groove on my brotha.
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<p>im not sure wat kind of parties you go to, or whether you have any perspective of wat a party/club is really like, but in actual fact u dont have to have a girl with you to be able to dance. You can simply be with mates, after which you might pick up some chic on the dance floor.</p>
<p>we throw some decent parties....the music is pretty mixed up here....most of our parties are on the Greek scene, and 32 frats gives you a few choices over the weekend...then there are a bunch of random parties, and a few organizations (Arab Students Org, Jefferson Society, International Student Org) throw some sick parties...lots of trance and rap on and off the Greek scene...Lots of Greeks are in to Indies too....umm...i guess girls are pretty open depending on the guy?...you just have to be social and approachable...no1 cares if you don't drink, although you'll have a hard time finding a dry party..</p>
<p>and yes...this thread is hilarious</p>
<p>I go to Georgetown. Parties are pretty good here for the most part. All depends on what you're looking for. If you wanna dance a lot, go to the clubs. Generally you'll see signs up for different special club night events each wk. Since it's DC, you'll have a good number of options. Just make sure you've got the cash for the taxi rides,haha.<br>
On campus parties are pretty mixed. Some have A LOT of dancing, some don't. Generally ppl that go to on campus parties either pregamed or drink while they're there. Honestly, a good portion of girls are open to doing...whatever....haha. Some parties focus more on drinking games, a la beer pong/beirut, flip cup, etc. Lots of fun, quick way to get drunk, esp. if you keep losing,lol. There are a lot of themed parties, like Euro Trash, black and white, black light, Carribbean, I-Party(part of international week), etc. We don't have an official Greek system officially associated w/ the University b/c they're banned, however we do have "non-social" frats, and they throw good parties. I've been to a number of pre-law frat parties, and they've been PACKED, esp. during the warmer months when most parties are in the backyard of a townhouse. There's also the service frat, and our first social frat(again not officially affiliated w/ the school), sig ep. Also, the Georgetown Emergency Response Medical Service(GERMS) group(completely student run) throws SICK parties(i'm taking the emt class right now). Also, there are generally more dance oriented parties in Riverside Lounge each wk, where they invite local DJs, etc. pretty cool, but never been to one. So, @ Georgetown, you have a pretty diverse scene to choose from.</p>
<p>dude i soo wanna get into gtown~!~</p>
<p>Well I actually had my senior trip last weekend and there were dances which I went to. One thing I did that I normally don't do is get on the dance floor. Unfornuately though I did no dancing. I was more like a spectator on the dance floor who kept thinking all the grindin was just crazy (in a good way). I just couldn't let loose though. I even tried that approach of "screw what others think, I'm gonna dance all night" but soon after the shyness kicked in. This is better than what I usually do which is go to parties and just sit on the side and not do anything at all. This time I still didn't do anything but at least I was on the dancefloor.</p>
<p>i used to be all shy and such at first as well...after a while, you just don't care....if you see a hot girl dancing alone or with just her girl friends, just go up and start dancing with her..if she moves on she moves on, but most of the time they'll stay and dance for atleast a few minutes...if you can dance and she gets in to you then who knows :p....you just need to be confident....have fun....</p>
<p>what about shows, or concerts..i sort of hate rap or hip hop or anything there, including that music, are there alot of concerts in college?</p>
<p>in order to get into frat parties you need to be 21 and have an ID. will any decent fake ID work?</p>
<p>"In college" is a misnomer and a dumb question to be frank. If you go to NYU, UChicago, GTown, whatever - think about the city it's in. Are there a lot of concerts in that city? There you go.</p>
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-hands him a beer-</p>