<p>^^ @notjoe Best post I’ve read in a while. I took a break from CC because I got tired of reading replies from veteran posters that were either condescending or downright discouraging. Also, the perfunctory “why haven’t you read this first?” comment after anybody asks about their chances. The answer is because they are not interested in hearing that nobody can accurately predict their chances. </p>
<p>While some kids are just looking to self-congratulate themselves, the vast majority are hoping to tap into the wealth of knowledge most of the long-time posters have about how their current profiles might be viewed by adcoms and in what areas they can improve upon themselves. I totally agree with notjoe that these kids, even while needing to be reminded about how long the odds are, can use some kind words of encouragement along with some helpful advice. Most of us adults on this site have either attended an Ivy or similar school, have kids who attend/attended, or both so it obviously can be done and we can share what we collectively know about the process to help others - especially the ones who are working hard to help themselves. Some veteran posters are getting increasingly cynical if not downright cranky. I keep wondering, why keep compulsively posting if that is the case? Also, asking kids to stop posting Chance threads because they are meaningless is a waste of time because it is never going to happen. That is a major reason why the majority of kids come onto this site - either to put themselves up for scrutiny by baring their souls (read: statistics and achievements) or to remain in the shadows looking to see what others say about kids who have similar profiles to their own. </p>
<p>Here’s a few things that also bother me:</p>
<p>Ironically, EVERY kid has a shot at an Ivy when they are in ninth grade and yet they are all too often told to come back in a few years and not waste their time on CC (okay, there is some merit to this advice). However, by the time they are juniors, the die is pretty much cast and for MOST it is too late for the Ivies because they wasted their time doing things that they thought would look good on college applications but that most highly selective colleges no longer or never did care about (veteran posters can easily fill in the blanks). Now that i think about it, I feel that a thread could be started as an evolving roadmap for ninth graders on how to be a successful applicant and by the time all the people on this site who are in the know have weighed in and refined it, it would easily rival the advice charged by $50k college “consultants”. </p>
<p>Next, everyone touts the MIT “Applying Sideways” piece (better known as “Do what you love and the rest will fall into place”) as the gospel on how to have a meaningful high school experience that will lead to future happiness. While it contains nice prose, how practical is the advice really? Yes, “do well in school” and “be nice” can’t be argued with but the proverbial " pursue your passion section" needs work. Baking, napping, hopscotch. Really??? For kids interested in going to MIT, indulging in these activities to their heart’s desire is a worthwhile use of their time? Seems to me, these kids’ apps are the first ones heading to the reject pile. I’ll put my money on the kid who built the nuclear reactor over the napper any day of the week. Even the advice to play sports sounds great if you love sports but most veteran posters know it won’t help one iota in getting into the most selective schools unless you are recruitable (MIT ironically caring the least even if you are). So even if you played varsity basketball, football and lacrosse, if you aren’t recruitable, then you might as well have been a tiddlywinks, badminton and ping pong player. This is stuff that veteran posters know about and can share with HS students who think that they must join the cross country team, even though they will sit on the bench, so they can be viewed as well-rounded. If you love sports but aren’t good enough to be a superstar, by all means, go ahead and join the teams but do so knowing that the Sideways police are going to take the kid who successfully worked on the bioremediation of oilspills over you no matter how much you loved what you were doing and how nice you were doing it.</p>
<p>I could go on and on with this missive but my point is why don’t more senior posters stop dismissing Chance threads by quoting the impossible odds and offer real advice on the merits and drawbacks of the resumes being presented? Help the kids increase their odds. I know they know what’s good and what’s lacking when they read them. Even if it is too late for some of the kids asking about their chances, younger readers can always benefit from applying the advice given to the chance poster. Also, how can the tone of the replies be improved? I guess it should start with mine.</p>