<p>I don't care that much but here's what freshman year was like.</p>
<p>Roommate: My gf is coming over for the weekend, could you not sleep in your room tonight? I have an air mattress for you so you can sleep in the study room!</p>
<p>This happened for four weekends.
Only the first two mattered because for the last two (and who knows what else) I was pledging and basically slept over at section anyway a lot of the time.</p>
<p>Why can't he sleep in the study room?</p>
<p>I'd be pretty livid.</p>
<p>Because the people in the study room don't want to listen to them having sex, duh. ;)</p>
<p>How would you feel about your roommate having HIS boyfriend over?</p>
<p>lol beffettime not only would that be extremely uncomfortable but I would have to change schools for such a horrific experience.</p>
<p>The more girls the merrier</p>
<p>I'm a girl, and personally, I HATE it when my roommate brings guys over. I HATE it when they cuddle and and he sleeps over. She will bring him over when I'm sleeping and she thinks that I don't hear them but I do and I get soo mad. I feel that she takes advantage of me and she doesn't ask me if it's okay for him to come over. It's just madd rude and I have talked with her about this and she just doesn't care. She just needs all the attention she can get from guys. It's disgusting. It just makes everything so awkward, and the rest of my suite hates it too. She just doesn't think that it's a big problem. It bothers me sooo much.</p>
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I'm a girl, and personally, I HATE it when my roommate brings guys over. I HATE it when they cuddle and and he sleeps over. She will bring him over when I'm sleeping and she thinks that I don't hear them but I do and I get soo mad. I feel that she takes advantage of me and she doesn't ask me if it's okay for him to come over. It's just madd rude and I have talked with her about this and she just doesn't care. She just needs all the attention she can get from guys. It's disgusting. It just makes everything so awkward, and the rest of my suite hates it too. She just doesn't think that it's a big problem. It bothers me sooo much.
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No offense, but its your problem. You need to bring it up, people are more accommodating than you'd think. She obviously doesn't know she's doing anything wrong, so how can you blame her? Stop *****ing about it on a message board and talk to her about it in a civil manner.</p>
<p>Well, I kicked my friend/ex-roommate out a couple times to be with my bf at the time, and she did the same thing with her bf at the time. As long as we called ahead of time and were like, "hey check it out, I need some privacy in the room for like an hour" it was cool. Usually if she or I really wanted privacy at short notice, we would go to our respective guy's house (they both lived places where they had individual rooms). The only time it wasn't cool was when I didn't have class till 11 and I had been up late studying for a test in said class. She brought her bf over after his 8am class and he fell asleep in our dorm and SNORED REALLY LOUD. I absolutely detest snoring and I can NOT sleep through it and she knew that and still did it anyway. I was ****ed at her for days for interrupting my sleep.</p>
<p>Thought up this plan, roommate brings girl over. Girl must bring friend over ;)</p>
<p>^ That would be awesome. I'd beg my roommate to do it in our room every time!</p>
<p>I don't like my roommate's boyfriend at all, so I don't like it when he comes over... after a couple times where he just showed up and slept in the room we sat down and talked and agreed that he could come over but not stay the night, and I need advance notice so I can get my computer and things out of the room. since then she's been a lot better about going to his place.</p>
<p>I speak from experience: my roommate last year had serious pickup skills. We agreed early on that we would alternate usage of the room. For example, if he asked for the room today, then next time he would go elsewhere. Even when he used the room, I was never sexiled to the point where I couldn't sleep in my room; it was twenty minutes of being in the lounge, tops.</p>
<p>As a libertarian, I had no objections to his desire to maximize his utility because it really did not affect me.</p>
<p>In my opinion, if you have a sexually active roommate, the key to avoiding a roommate strain is to talk things over. The guys on my floor who would always kick their roommates out were the ones who had problems with their roommates; they simply weren't being fair. It is your room, yes, but it is also your roommate's room.</p>