<p>Sex has always been a serious issue in High School and usually teenagers never think before they become sexually active with someone. What do you guys think or Premarital Sex? Do you agree with doing it and waiting until marriage? Or do you all believe that sex will happen anytime and you really do not care about waiting til marriage?</p>
<p>What significance does marriage have to whether you think you're ready to have sex or not?</p>
<p>I guess or at least hope that all the Christians are virgins b4 marriage</p>
<p>and yes i think no one should have sex beofre becuz that'll be that's all on theri mind.</p>
<p>I personally think that people should wait until marriage. Am I going to provide reasons or lecture someone? No.</p>
<p>this dilemma cannot be solved. It will always be the promiscuous to moderate majority versus the disciplined (and sometimes uber radical like me) minority. Religion does, or should play no role in whether or not you are smart enough (IMO) to avoid crumbling to pressure. To those who agree with me and practice accordingly, I salute you. Not too many austere (diction?) teens these days.</p>
<p>hm. i never really envisioned myself waiting for marriage, but recently i've been thinking that it'd be nice to wait. idk.. i haven't been in a long-term relationship yet so i can't really say anything for sure. i would definitely have to be in a long-term relationship if i decided to have sex and wasn't going to wait till marriage</p>
<p>I believe in premarital sex, but I guess you can say I'm one of those rare guys who doesn't believe in having sex unless you love the woman.</p>
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Religion does, or should play no role in whether or not you are smart enough (IMO) to avoid crumbling to pressure.
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Or you could just not get any. Like Me. :(:(:(</p>
<p>I think if it happens, it happens. But I'm not out looking for sex. And I wouldn't have a problem getting engaged to someone who wanted to wait.</p>
<p>I think you know my answer.</p>
<p>I'm waiting for marriage. I dont think your virginity is something you lose, but something you give.</p>
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<p>Good point.</p>
<p>I'm just waiting for the right person, at the right time, and the right moment, married or not, or with what my parents want, 18 or not.
I'm 14 now...so I don't see myself having sex anytime soon
But things could be different, in, say, a year.
Who knows?</p>
<p>I think that it would be better to wait til marriage. If your Verginity is something you give,(and you can only give it once) then why not give it to someone you care about instead of just someone you met at a bar. IMO</p>
<p>Premarital sex is the best. Just as long as you're not a whore about it.</p>
<p>I don't think that you necessarily need to be married to have sex, but I'm not going to do it until I'm ready for all its possible consequences... which might be when I'm married.</p>
<p>I dont' think you should necessarily be married to lose your virginity. There's plenty of reasons why people wait to get married (financial reasons are major), but that doesn't mean that people who really love each other and intend to get married shouldn't have sex.</p>
<p>And there's the people who are not legally allowed to get married; if you are gay, and have a life partner but cannot marry them, you should still be allowed to have sex with them.</p>
<p>Personally, I don't think I"ll lose my virginity to anyone unless I've been dating them for, like, forever (ok, that really means, like, 2 years or something), but I probably won't wait till marriage.</p>
<p>i'm for premarital sex. i do think it's important that you have sex with the right person, but honestly waiting for marriage? well that might be a disappointing wedding nite.</p>
<p>also..do you guys just consider sex intercourse?</p>
<p>I would have to agree that I have intentions of waiting till marriage, but I have to agree with GreenDayFan that:</p>
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<p>So if things happen they do.</p>
<p>The way I see it, marriage is the ultimate step you can take a relationship to. In my mind, the step that is clearly the biggest should also be the last. For that reason, I'm not sure I could marry someone I haven't had sex with. The same reason I would never marry someone I haven't kissed, for example. Marriage is simply a much larger step to take a relationship to than sex, in my mind.</p>
<p>Could anyone answer my question. are all of saying just to wait for intercourse until marriage? or what...you can do oral, manual, etc.? are people allowed to masturbate?</p>