@meaa7130 I think we’re scrutinized more. We (our kids & the parents) have more hoops to jump through too. The SAT IIs are required, not optional. You need 3 non-parent LoR. Some dual enrollment classes are highly preferred/required.
Parents fill out the school report side of things. Transcripts - my son’s first marking period ones are 22 1/2 pages long. (He takes more classes than the regular schooler.) I had to give grades, GPA, credits, course titles, course descriptions, curriculum lists, etc. It took months to get the formatting & wording to where I thought they would be easily understood by a person more familiar with public & private schools. (My son says I deserve a PhD in “Educationese.” lol) Next week, I’ll be making up his mid-year transcripts & getting those sent out to colleges.
I had to explain why & how we homeschool, how grades were determined, how the student took advantage of all the opportunities available to him, list every outside course he took & every non-parent teacher. Then there was the guidance counselor letter. (We were honest about how math is his weakness, but with the right teacher & curriculum, he eventually gets it.) (He’s not going into a STEM field.)
That’s just the tip of the iceberg.
To answer your question, I think it’s a combination of things. The student has to be extraordinary & the parent has to do their part. There’s not a lot of info out there about filling out our part of the Common App because it changes every year. Some parents don’t want to bother with it & urge their kids to apply elsewhere.
Some colleges won’t take homeschoolers at all, & some require more hoops than families can do.
Our kids also have to overcome the stigma & stereotype the public & media love to perpetuate. The majority are not conservative bible thumpers shielding their kids from evil worldly things. The majority are like our family - secular & having to homeschool because the school system failed our kids. We wanted a better education for our kids & made huge sacrifices to make it happen. For some of us, it’s more than that. School wasn’t a safe place. My son is lucky to be alive.
Sorry for the long post. I made a bullet point one maybe 10 pages ago. I’m also typing on my phone. (Son has my laptop, working on scholarship essays.)