<p>Hey girls so I'm in the process of asking a friend to prom. I've become pretty good friends with her in high school and I asked her friends and they said she would say yes. So I know girls like it to be more than just do u want to go to prom with me so:</p>
<p>I have to options so far and was hoping someone could tell me what they thought (I ran it by my friends and they said it was ok) </p>
<p>During homeroom and morning announcements I was going to ask to do them or say something right after and then basically ask her over the intercom so the whole school could here then have a friend give her flowers in her homeroom from me as I ask,</p>
<p>The other was basically I get the dean to call the two of us into his office and make it seem like we're in big trouble (I have the same major as her do we have had the two classes with each other for the past four years and we fool around a lot so i can make it sound like the teacher complained to the dean and my friends could help me sell it. Then when we go to his office he basically scares us and what not.
I remember a couple of years ago we got in trouble and the dean put the hand book in front of us and made us read the consequences out loud.</p>
<p>Soo now were in the office and he puts the handbook in front of us and tells her to read it aloud, and it says "prom?" on it. The I'd have flowers to give her or watev.</p>
<p>Also do girls like it to be in front if the whole school and like a big deal or would they rather have something personal and private??</p>
<p>I love the second idea. It’s so cute, sweet and original. I would suggest not doing the public one because many girls then feel forced to say yes and may not actually want to go even if her friends said she’d say yes.</p>
<p>As a girl, I’d definatly prefer the second option. That’s way more original and cute than the first one (people ask over the announcements every year at school), and its something that’s personal between you two. Do that but have flowers for her too after you ask her. Because girls basically NEED flowers to make it offical. Haha jk, but we really love them;) I guess it depends on the girl, but I’d never want to be asked in front of the whole school. I probably would be uncomfortable more than 5 people being present unless everyone involved were my very close friends. I think it’s way more special and cute when it’s something just between the two of you:)</p>
<p>Oh and don’t worry about her saying no because I’m sure she won’t. Most girls would never do that unless they’re total bit***s. And when a girl’s friends say she’ll say yes, she will. Unlike guys, girls love to talk about who they like and stuff like that, so they def know she’s interested in you.</p>
<p>“her saying no because I’m sure she won’t. Most girls would never do that unless they’re total bit***s.”</p>
<p>Girls (and guys) should be able to say no for whatever the hell reason they want without judgment.</p>
<p>I’d go with the second option because there’s less potential for it to end up awkward. And I certainly wouldn’t think badly of anyone who just said, “Would you like to go to prom?”</p>
<p>K I’m gonna run it by a couple of my girl friends.</p>
<p>So a bouquet if roses is ok if we are going as friends?</p>
<p>That’s what I was thinking, some girls would do anything for attention but she’s not like that</p>
<p>Definitely the second one!!! It’s so cuteeee 
I think any kind of flowers would be fine since the whole thing was already good enough!</p>
<p>Would your dean actually agree to the 2nd one? It seems to be asking quite a lot of them. Also it might look as though he’s asking her, not you.</p>
<p>I definitely say the second one. </p>
<p>…Buuuut</p>
<p>Don’t give red roses. Please. Unless its her favorite flower. Giver her flowers that she genuinely likes. Too many guys give red roses…they’re like the next carnations.</p>
<p>Or give white roses, they’re much sweeter imo</p>
<p>Definitely the second idea.</p>
<p>2nd!! ABSOLUTELY ADORABLE <3</p>
<p>lol second one it is, yea so ill tell him to give me the hand book first and read whatever then turn the page and give it to her and it’ll say prom?</p>
<p>lol it is kinda cute thanks guys</p>
<p>I hope it worked :)</p>
<p>The second one is really cute! Personally, I would prefer it because it’s a lot sweeter and means more. I’d rather the guy do something private instead of something public for everyone to see.</p>