<p>Ari, another great point, and we are not considering going to a lesser school at all at this point. It’s Cal all the way… unless we hear something else this afternoon. She did apply to a handful of Ivy’s, but only really liked two of them when we toured there, so we’ll see what happens. All gung-ho on Cal right now. Rejected by Stanford yesterday, as was expected, but once she had her Cal admittance, she knew she was not going there. She spent a good deal of time at Stanford over the past three years, starting with a live-in summer course, and the more she did, the less she liked. </p>
<p>And you’re absolutely correct about a possible major change. As a father of girl, it seems like an awfully long road to me. Assuming a mid-range four-year residency (she wants to do ophthalmology at this point) she’ll be almost thirty when she is done with all the formal studies, so when does she have a family and kids? It’s a little different for males that way. </p>
<p>She is also highly social and extroverted. Sells snow to the Eskimos. She’s been heavily involved with a couple of charities during HS, developed relationships all by herself with some corporate donors, and became a big star fundraiser. A couple of weeks ago, we happened to watch this reality show on the tube together, about these three very successful young real estate agents in LA, all in their twenties, and making a killing by moving multi-million dollar properties, and I told her how similar those guys were to her. I said “I bet if don’t go to college and just become a RE agent right after HS, in five years you’ll be earning more than an average M.D. But you better get at least a bachelor’s first, it’ll mature and round you as a person.” She said it looked like a fun career, and it didn’t go any further, she is still all in on medicine, but it is in the back of my mind. We all want easy and comfy rides in life for our kids, I suppose. </p>
<p>Drax, Thank you so much for such a thoughtful post. I realize that such info is unfortunately not easy to come by, and it is exactly what I was looking for. I am gonna have to re-read your post a couple more times.</p>
<p>Dunn, I don’t care what they say about you on the hidden threads, I still say you’re a classy guy. Thanks for slapping me out of the easy way out. I actually have not been to the Berkeley pre-med horror thread until you linked it, but I found plenty of solid pro arguments on just the first couple of pages that I managed to plow through so far. How does one post an emoticon here? I always forget. will this work? Shhh, don’t tell me…</p>