<p>So I was visiting Boston this weekend to check out some schools, and decided to go visit my old fling from the summer at Harvard. This guy and I are still pretty good friends, but he broke up with his girlfriend somewhat recently. So I get there at like 5 in the morning and we started cuddling and making out and whatever. It was really great, but then at the end I was like..soo do you like me or is this just a hookup. He said, he didn't really know, just because I live so far away. So he walked me to the T and then called me later that night and left a cute message even though he had like 3 papers to write and a test. Am I being too vulnerable? I dicked him over at the end of the summer, but I really like him now..I just don't want to wear my heart on my sleeve. Advice or insight would be fabulous.</p>
<p>Did you talk at all, or was this purely a make-out session? I don't think he's really interested in you.</p>
<p>Yeah we talked..but then it got really late and went to bed. Well I know he was really interested in me in the summer, what makes you think he isn't?</p>
<p>a guy being like maybe, i'm not sure, usuallly isn't a good sign. It's just my opinion. Usually on-again off-again relationships aren't long-lasting or fulfilling ones.</p>
<p>yeah i know..it's true, it is a valid point though, i live in ky and he has to stay there for crew during SB. We'll prob just date over the summer.</p>
<p>long-distance in high school (and college) usually doesn't work, so it's fine when he's in town, but I wouldn't expect anything to happen after</p>
<p>yeah, i agree...unless i go to school in boston</p>
<p>is he your age?</p>
<p>im a senior and hes a frosh, hes only like 3 months older though</p>
<p>"Am I being too vulnerable?"</p>
<p>I think you are unless you are the type of person who can get physical/intimate w/o having emotional attachments. Typically females cant help but get attached, and typically males are able to go through these motions w/o getting attached. Overgeneralization of course.</p>
<p>yeah im definitely attached..this sucks</p>
<p>Yeah, I completely don't recommend long distance relationships. My boyfriend only lives an hour away, but since he's the only one with the ability to come up and visit me (he has a license), it makes it quite a bit harder. And at times, it's truely dreadful. There are times where you really just want to cuddle or need him, and he can't be there physically - and due to classes or activities - might not even be "there." Unless you two have a really strong relationship, it won't work. If you're the type of girl who breaks up with a guy for stupid, little reasons like him not being able to attend your homecoming, then it really won't work. It's a lot of compromise. But, it's nice since you talk a lot, and really get to know the person on an intellectual level rather than intimately...though that's fun too.</p>
<p>Good luck.</p>