<p>Lynn, sorry to hear you have to fly all the way from HI and rush back quickly. We (coming from the east coast) decided to take it slow. It helped that our other S was at camp that week.</p>
<p>Make your Camp reservations (as well as your dorm arrangements) ASAP. DS took his sweet time deciding whether to attend camp. He ended up on the waiting list for the longest time and calling every week for updates. By the time we got word that he was in, airline tickets to Tucson had gone up considerably, so we ended up flying to Phoenix and driving to Tucson.</p>
<p>Check in was at 1:00 PM on a Sunday, if I remember correctly. We went to the bedding store (was it LNT or BB&B?) in the AM and picked up everything we had pre-ordered, then checked in to the dorm. The dorm was pretty empty, but there were a handful of students around for Camp and other programs. Check in itself was pretty quick (since there were no crowds) and parking was not an issue. DS got to pick the better side of the room for himself. We had time for another run to the stores before EOD Sunday. By then all his stuff was in the closet and drawers, bed was made, microwave oven was operational, etc.</p>
<p>One thing we had not counted on was that we were not allowed in the dorm room without DS escorting us, so while he was at camp we were not able to do anything with his room. The most we could do was buy a few things (like a phone and an extension cord) and wait until DS got back from camp to hand them to him.</p>
<p>So what was left for Thursday, you ask? Well, here's what I remember:
1) Handing DS the few things we bought for him. If we did not stick around he would have had to shop for those by himself.
2) The closet was missing a shelf on the top, which limited storage. We bought some boards at Home Depot, cut to size. We ended up running back to the store twice because the boards would not fit.
3) The built-in desk had a mirror smack in the middle. Good for applying makeup, not so much for studying. We bought a tall and narrow white board that fit neatly on top of the mirror and sticky-tacked it on.
4) The room had a built in sink. The sink's grout condition was not acceptable to my DW, so I re-grouted the sink (and left DS with instructions to apply a sealer solution the next day.)</p>
<p>As you can see, our sticking around was helpful but not crucial. Without us, DS would have had to buy his own phone and extension cords, figure out what to do with the mirror on his desk, and live with sub-optimal shelf and grout conditions. I'm not sure he would have even noticed the difference. But as parents we were glad that we could do our very best to get him settled in his new home away from home.</p>
<p>Oh, and we never got to meet the roommate. Even though we let him and his parents know of our schedule, and encouraged them to meet us in Tucson, he drove himself to Tucson on Friday, after we had already left.</p>