At least there are tools these days like the NPC so that students know what they’re getting into before they apply. Education is expensive for the middle class. It’s expensive for everyone but the very wealthy and the very poor that get into very elite colleges. But it’s absolutely not necessary to go to a private college and pay $50000/yr to get a good education. There are lots of good state universities that offer the “college experience”, strong academics, many other good departments, and top ranked departments.
The UCs, UW Seattle, Purdue, UIUC, UMass Amherst, Georgia Tech, Minnesota, Rutgers, Clemson, Alabama, Penn State, Michigan, Texas, Florida, Wisconsin, Connecticut, Iowa, Utah, Arizona, Arizona State, Kansas and I can go on and on. These are good schools for 96% of top students (of course, students and their parents may have to make a sacrifice to go to a more elite school if they get in). Many of these schools offer rigorous honors courses and the really top students can get to graduate courses their sophomore or junior year. They’re unfortunately still not cheap, but much more affordable than private colleges. And the other 4% of top students can get generous need based aid at Harvard, Princeton or Stanford, Amherst, etc.
In a sense, US students should feel privileged since even these “non-elite” colleges are much better than those in other countries.
People should be careful about taking on tremendous debt. But taking on some debt to go to an elite school like Hopkins, USC, Cornell, or Chicago is a calculated risk that could pay off really well. These schools also have big endowments to make sure students are not drowning and suffocating in debt. But it’s still not the magic ticket to success.