<p>I, too, know it’s tough. Mom of Engineering student here.</p>
<p>Your son’s story could be repeated, with only mildly varying details, by tons of us Engineering/Science students and our kids.</p>
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<li>Your S will get throught it - possibly with a higher grade than it appears now; maybe not.</li>
<li>My S had a very similar story - eked out a C+ in said class. Worst grade he’s ever had; however it was the grade I was proudest of… he had feared failing; he took all of the steps on his own that he (and I) could think of to help him keep from failing - study partner, ofc hours, TA, bought a different text… As I told him at the time … he did not fold under pressure, he “worked the problem” and that is a life skill.</li>
<li>Your S already has hold of a way of handling the problem with his peers. Not sure what you would accomplish beyond what they plan to do. Ergo, I would stay out of it.</li>
<li>You didn’t say this, but I’m sure you may be worried aboutwhat this means for his total college career/what effect it might have on his GPA. That will probably all be fine - my S ended up with a fine (almost 3.5) GPA, had job offers and is launched on a successful career.</li>
<li>If you do decide to “get involved” (and I restate my vote along with many others that you do not), please do nothing until the term is over. Even that seems like a poor idea to me - what impression will it create among departmental faculty that mommy stepped in?</li>
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