Really need advice...please...

<p>Everyone please be advised, 335 is a 13 year old.</p>

<p>If you have read the whole thread, you will see that has been mentioned before (if true, some posters are not truthful about their backgrounds, and that may very well be the case here). Just do what everyone else is now and ignore…</p>

<p>335426607: Are you honestly in 8th grade? Because, I am, and I sound nothing like you. Your grammar, spelling, and overall understanding of the English language is atrocious.</p>

<p>Sfhkboi, hahahahahaha omg.</p>

<p>How about if we don’t feed the ■■■■■ by responding to it or provoking it?</p>

<p>■■■■■■ are swarming CC nowadays</p>

<p>In my opinion, assuming by same miracle you DO get into Harvard (I’m sorry, but you won’t) not only is it TOTALLY unfair to the child that you drag a long with you, (what about schooling for the child? Who will take care of it when you are in class/studying 24/7, you will have no time or energy to pay attention to it, sounds like a great life growing up!), but there is no way in hell you will get good grades at Harvard while simutaneously attempting to raise a child. You will have NO social life, NO sleep, NO sanity, you’ll be back home after a semester. You speak on about how you have “morals” but in my opinion you are one of the most self-centered people I have ever encountered.</p>

<p>■■■■■…</p>

<p>holy crap, way to go bluesclues99
worriedkid725 is self-centered</p>

<p>way to go!!!</p>

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<li>Why would Harvard trust you to not do more stupid stuff. You can’t screw up much more than that.</li>
<li>God all your antiabortion stuff is annoying. Your “baby” is a lump of cells that can’t be considered anywhere near human fro quite some time. You’re really gonna let that mess up the rest of your life?</li>
<li>As bluesclues99 said, you will FAIL at life is you get into Harvard/keep that baby.</li>
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<p>So get an abortion, try to forget about ti all, and get on with your life and maybe get into Harvard.</p>

<p>sorry ljn3110, but you were almost right about everything.
she cant get an abortion cause she, of course, looks at a baby as a different thing then u. i dont think she wants to live the rest of her life knowing that she killed a future baby, shes not going to just “try to forget about it”.
but u are right that, thats the only way she can get into harvard, what a stupid thing to do for her.</p>

<p>Oh, c’mon. As an adult, I think she made foolish, indefensible choices. She knows that. She’s changed her goal to UMich. Read the thread. She said she was willing to consider adoption. I do know young parents who had a kid, worked and attended classes. It was a tough life. I also knew their kids as they grew up- and they were normal. It all just wasn’t a normal , dreamy situation. It takes a lot of luck, hard work- and “it takes a village.”</p>

<p>The issue with the thread was the innocent, unrealistic view that, having made her mistakes, she could just keep her dreams. Life’s not that certain. Her attitude belied a very protected, naive view of the world. Really, only the world as she wants it to be.</p>

<p>I don’t know if she’s a ■■■■■. For all we know, “she” is a group of loopy kids posting to get a rise out of us. But, as one parent said, on the off chance others may benefit from the discussion, we kept on.</p>

<p>It’s useless to come on as a very young person and claim to know it all. You don’t. Some of you want a platform on which to toss out pro-abortions statements as if you were the final word. Give it up. I am pro-choice (note the word “choice”) and I find gagging a pregnant anti-abortion person with callous pro-abortion comments here to be a form of cyber bullying. Plenty of people do not believe in abortion. That’s why there has been a constant struggle to protect pro-choice rights for the past 40 years. </p>

<p>So, what do you accomplish by insisting? Go start a pro-choice group at your school, go escort at Planned Parenthood, go mentor kids, so they don’t get in trouble.</p>

<p>Or, find some other cause. You make mistakes, too. I know plenty of parents who married after college and still screwed up their kids.</p>

<p>ps. post your own life experience, as some of us have. You’ll find what you think is actually only based on your own family life, how your parents managed for you. It takes a bit of true independence to be able to speak of life’s realities. You can’t predict a life of utter failure for her when you haven’t lived much life on your own,</p>