I’m a sophomore in highschool and my bf is a senior and we have no idea what to do about our relationship when he goes off too college.
He isn’t going for a while right? So, don’t worry about it right now. See how things evolve. 3 months is a long time in the life of a high school relationship. Decide how to handle it in August.
Well I’m mean like rn I’m a freshman and he is a junior but we are just stuck on the situation
One post ago you were a sophomore and he was a senior.
Wait. You’re worried about what’s going to happen when he goes off to college in fifteen months? Oh, sweetie. Come back and see us after his senior prom. If you’re still dating, I’m sure we’ll have advice then.
And FWIW, I’m friends with two different couples that started dating in high school, went to different colleges and have been married for 30 years, more or less. So, in the highly unlikely event that your 9th grade boyfriend is your true love, now and forever, it will work out.
My D has a similar issue except the roles are reversed–she’s a senior and he’s a sophomore. My D had a moment of trauma when his grandma had all but convinced him that they should break up when my D leaves to make it easier for her to make new friends and not be hung up about her boyfriend at home. Okkkk. The only problem with that scenario is that my D will be a basket case, and it will probably ruin her first semester! I recommended that they just continue to take it one day at a time, even after she leaves. They may grow apart naturally, or they may keep up the long distance relationship…it’s impossible to predict at this point.