<p>Will be staying over, do you have any experiences with this? I hope it wont be a pain.</p>
<p>worst case scenario, she's really annoying and lives in your apartment</p>
<p>best case scenario, they let you watch</p>
<p>If they do something you're not comfortable with, tell them.</p>
<p>Well...good luck! Haha...</p>
<p>Usually, this doesn't work out well. But it can! Set boundaries NOW. Like, how often she can stay over, when they should keep it down...and have some kind of signal so you don't interrupt crazy sex. If you live in a dorm room, we've discovered (this is for a room with 4 girls) that writing "watching such and such movie" (just pick one...any one lol) on the whiteboard on the door is a good way to keep privacy. If you live in an apartment, just make sure that they know that anything they do is probably able to be heard by you and possibly neighbors (depending on the thickness of the walls...). So, the best idea here is to set ground rules ASAP.</p>
<p>Good luck!!:)</p>
<p>Since you took the time to ask the question you must be concerned. When my daughter was a freshman (now a junior) her roommate had a boyfriend who visited way too much. He would show up on a Tuesday and stay into the weekend. He would stay in the room at times when the roommate was at class (when she went) and my daughter would need to either get dressed or want to study or just relax (sleep) if there was time. Obviously (from her crying phone calls) it made her feel very uncomfortable and intruded on her time and privacy. Most people should understand this and be respectful of their roommate, but for some reason there are people who just dont get it, dont care or are so self centered that have no understanding how their actions impact others around them.</p>
<p>Even if the girlfriend is nice and everyone gets a long it will be a pain at times if the over nights are frequent. Hey if she visits from out of town and visits everyone once in awhile that may be a little different. Most people would agree that every weekend is not once in awhile. I am assuming you are in a dorm, but even if you are in an apartment in the same room or a separate room it will be a pain. It always seems once this starts to happen the roommate will assume all is good and the overnights will continue. Although it is hard to communicate some of these types of problems it is still best that it is thrown on the table. </p>
<p>After discussing with her roommate and trying to work with the RA things just didnt workout and she ended up switching rooms/roommates at the end of her first semester and all was fine. Original roommate was a high school friend and unfortunately my daughter has not talked to her in over a year and a half. Obviously you can tell my opinion is that nothing positive happens on your behalf in this situation. </p>
<p>I have left out many details of what my daughter went through her first semester of college regarding the overnight stays, but believe me it will be a pain. </p>
<p>Good Luck!</p>
<p>Tape them and use it as blackmail!</p>
<p>Well luckily my roommate didn't have a girlfriend. However a friend of mine would come over to my room all the time when her roommates boyfriend would spend the night, she said it was just awkward but would not go into detail. I guess it benefited me in a way. But yeah, just set ground rules and don't let them take advantage of you being too nice about it. I had a friend who was too nice about his roommates girl sleeping over, and we would always harass him about how he would have to be in the room while they were screwing eachother.</p>