<p>My gf and I are going to be attending the same school. Do they frown upon someone "staying over" on occasion?</p>
<p>It depends on the college, some do but I think most don’t care. Her roommate may not appreciate it, though. My roommate and I do not allow opposite sex overnight guests unless the other one of us happens to be gone for the night, as per my request.</p>
<p>thats understandable… One of us was fortunate enough to get a single dorm though.</p>
<p>Unless you’re going to a religious school, I don’t see the problem. My roommate and I don’t have a problem with each other having people stay the night as long as they don’t do anything while the roommate is in the room.</p>
<p>Honestly, who is going to frown on it? Other freshmen who are partying it up? Or teachers that won’t know about it?</p>
<p>If you are staying in the single dorm then it likely won’t matter to anyone at all as long as it’s not a more conservative school. I am lucky enough to have the same arrangement. 
Next year we are both getting singles though. lol</p>
<p>thanks guys. It felt like an odd question to ask lol… we just dont see eachother often bc of working ect ect. so its something that Id been wondering about.</p>
<p>don’t do it if the roommate is not 100% okay with it.</p>
<p>Good adice was given. Stayovers, along with possession of alcohol, unauthorized borrowing of personal items and loud music/games/TV, are major causes of atrition and headaches between roommates.</p>
<p>When I used to live in a double room, I’ve always had the agreement that no overnight visitors would be allowed without a casis by casis explicit agreement. So, in the 3 or 4 occasions in which we wanted to bring over friends from hometown, it was ok, nonetheless we never brought girlfriends to stay overnight.</p>
<p>Both my roommate and I have girlfriends at home (his in college, mine a senior in HS). Thus it hasn’t been an issue for us. My girlfriend came to visit me this past weekend though, and she stayed in our room for the weekend (Friday and Saturday night). Not a big deal… I didn’t sexile him (there were some texts asking him to let me know when he was coming back to the room ;)) and we didn’t hook up when he was in the room. His girlfriend is coming this weekend. I expect it to be similar.</p>
<p>Don’t take advantage of the roommate and it won’t be an issue.</p>
<p>There really isnt a roommate in this situation. I just wasnt sure if it was an issue for anyone else. It also isnt a religious school.</p>
<p>Visit the housing pages of the school’s website. They should say if, when and where 24 hour visitation is allowed.</p>
<p>Even if it says 24 hour visitation isn’t allowed if she doesn’t have a roommate and you all aren’t making a lot of noise nobody is going to know or care.</p>
<p>Don’t always inconvenience her roommate. Inconvenience yours equally.</p>
<p>Does anybody actually read threads anymore?</p>
<p>haha my thoughts exactly…</p>