Rushing for a fraternity as a sophomore?

<p>I have not really thought about it much, but the idea has crossed my mind a few times. I am currently a second semester freshman, and I feel like my social life so far has been very disappointing. I actually know a lot of people from my high school here, but I've kinda failed at meeting people outside of my high school social group that I can hang out with on a regular basis. On weekends I get so bored I feel like scooping my eyes out with a spoon, and I eventually just end up hanging out with the same 2 or 3 dudes from my high school (which is getting REALLY old, trust me).</p>

<p>I live in a dorm with 8 people (including myself), and 3 of them are in frats. I've noticed that those 3 seem like the happiest people on the planet. They are always out and rarely in the rooms, and I am beginning to envy the numerous random texts/calls/facebook messages they seem to get every second.</p>

<p>Now, I never even considered joining a frat my first semester, I go to a large state school which has several frats of all types, and I never even bothered going to any rush events or anything like that. However, I am now a few weeks into my second semester, and this whole social thing is slappin me in the face. My dad was in a frat, and he actually said that it really isn't worth it, but that was 30 years ago, and fraternities have definitely changed I can assume. He was in PKA at SDSU, which would probably be the one I would choose to rush for, but then again I haven't looked into any other fraternities.</p>

<p>FINALLY, my question is: What is the general attitude toward students rushing as Sophomores? If by the end of this year I REALLY REALLY want to join one, should I consider rushing for the first semester of my sophomore year, or will I stick out like a sore thumb because of what grade I'm in? Is it common for sophomores to rush?</p>

<p>Any suggestions/comments would be greatly appreciated.</p>

<p>Fraternities don't care about sophomores rushing. I would suggest you see how things shape up at the beginning of next year, and if you find yourself in the same position, I would rush. Just make sure you research the frats beforehand. I was considering rushing at one frat, but the more parties I went to, the more I realized that the frat was "trashy." One of my older friends who was a junior convinced me not to join a fraternity because I "would be going to the same party for the rest of my college life."</p>

<p>President of my roommates frat pledged second semester sophomore year so don't let class get in the way. As a matter of fact since I'm transferring I won't be pledging til I'm a sophomore.</p>

<p>I think it depends on the school; a ton of us (myself included) rushed and had no problems getting bids. I would say that sophomore year would be the last year to rush if you want to be in the Greek system.</p>

<p>Do people generally rush as Freshmen? I suppose it depends on the school, but I plan on going to a state flagship and would probably go dorms first year, but want to live in a house sophomore year. Do people usually pledge first year and then move in second or just rush as a sophomore? Thanks for any info.</p>

<p>Yes, a majority of students pledge as freshmen and live in the house sophomore year. I will say that most of the sophomores who were rushing were transfer students.</p>

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I live in a dorm with 8 people (including myself), and 3 of them are in frats. </p>

<p>FINALLY, my question is: What is the general attitude toward students rushing as Sophomores?

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Who is more likely to know the attitude at your school? Random people on the internet that don't even know the name of your school, or the 3 people you live with in frats?</p>

<p>Fraternities are still worth it. And it's not a big deal if someone pledges as a sophomore, yeah they're usually transfer students but we've had a few kids who just didn't choose to rush until their second year.</p>

<p>i agree with the transfer thing being a big part of it, thats whay im doing it as a sophomore, if I did hate the chapter at my school (all guidos) I would try to get pledging done here so I'm a brother if I get into my new school (I went to high school with 5 of the brothers of chapter at the school I want to transfer to and I was friends with them in high school, so I assume I'd probably fit in with their frat)</p>