<p>I am so sorry that he did this but it is better to know now than if you put another two years into this relationship. When you broke up the first time he had a chance to explore many things including other young ladies. It had to hurt like hell when he told you that this is not the right time and that he will never be the person he was. Now it is time to heal, and eventually you will move on. I know you love him but this is not the right guy for you. He has changed and a wall is a terrible thing to try and break through. He will make you sad and miserable if you allow him to continue in this relationship when his heart is not in it. I love you and it hurts to see you in pain but it hurts more to see that you are clinging on to this.</p>
<p>Will you pul-ease stop being so nasty? I understand that you didnât sleep last night and have to work until 10 tonight. I know youâre not happy about it but itâs not my fault and thereâs nothing I can do about it. Likewise about the fact that Iâm unemployed and can go to sleep today if I want. Youâd do the same thing if you were in my situation and you know it. And about picking S up from college this weekend: Why are you so categorically opposed to my picking him up? Did it ever occur to you that maybe he doesnât know anyone with a car to ride home with? And that he doesnât want to go bumming rides with strangers? Things were different when you were in college. You were farther away and itâs not 1971 anymore. Get over it - itâs not that big of a deal.</p>
<p>No, itâs not more dangerous out there than when we were kids - look it up! No, if we beat kids today they wouldnât turn out better. Your parents beat you and look how lousy you turned out. Maybe one more smack upside the head would have fixed you. Did you ever stop and consider that the reason your kid gets picked on or âbulliedâ where ever he goes is because your kid acts like an a$$. Breast feeding your kid till age 5, bathing with them till 13 and sleeping with them till 18 does NOT make them feel secure. Just because it is ânaturalâ or âorganicâ does not make it better. Cobra venom anyone?</p>
<p>To DH: How hard is it to read the directions on the recycling bin? They put a big label on the outside and the inside lid as to what they will and wonât take. Thanks to your inability to read instructions and your undying belief that you are somehow special and the city will make an exception for you, I got to unload the cut up plastic and reorganize everything. </p>
<p>To DS: When I sent you out to do the task described above, I did not mean for you to move four sheets of plastic, leave the rest in the recycling bin and leave the bins on the street. I meant for you to to what I actually asked you to do in specific detail. How nice for you that you went back to college before I saw the half-finished job.</p>
<p>I am so overwhelmed with bad news that I wonât even bother to get specific. Letâs just say this day blows.</p>
<p>It is extremely obnoxious to take a pint of Ben and Jerryâs Ice Cream, mutilate it in order to pick out all of the good stuff, and then return the residuals to the freezer. Time after time, flavor after flavor. What is Phish Food without the chocolate fish? If you crave chocolate, buy a freaking chocolate bar and stop wasting so much ice cream! It isnât very fun for the rest of the family to spy a nice pint, pick it up to notice it is 2/3 full, and then dig in to a whole lot of disappointment. If you destroy a pint of ice cream, just throw the rest away and get it over with!</p>
<p>I need new friends.</p>
<p>I need any friends. And possibly a different husband. For now Iâll keep the kid.</p>
<p>To all the morons who drive into the pedestrian or bike lanes in order to pass me on the right (ILLEGAL) when I am waiting for oncoming traffic before turning left:</p>
<p>Are you really that much of a misfit that you need to risk lives in order to get to your destination three seconds sooner? Solve your lateness problem, or accept it, but do not put other peopleâs lives at risk. The person you hit, you buffoon, might be someone elseâs kid on their way to catch the school bus. God forbid any of you, and there are many, really do hit and injure or kill someone. I will speak powerfully against you as a witness on the stand, and you will hopefully go to jail for a long time (plus lose your net worth in a civil suit).</p>
<p>you know what leslie, you really need to have reality for breakfast lunch and dinner and have it in huge portions</p>
<p>Arenât you happy that I made you go shopping for that warm coat? That I packed you a hat and a scarf? And at least one sweater? Northern Europe in October is NOT Florida!!! :eek:</p>
<p>Seriously. Write your essay. Seriously. Iâm tired of nagging. Seriously. Get this app out the door so we can both be happier.</p>
<p>Hey teacher, just for once Iâd like to be in a group project with people who actually CARE about their marks. </p>
<p>Honestly, is that too much to ask? </p>
<p>Or devise projects that give members SEPARATE marks. You have not even the slightest idea what I have to do by myself, because these morons Iâm with arenât even planning on going to college or university. You really think theyâre going to pull their own weight for a lousy little group project?!</p>
<p>Hey Philosophy TA - who the heck do you think you are? You do NOT need to be so verbally abusive to your class. If none of them are living up to your standards, perhaps you should take a look in the mirror and note that the guy there is not a very good teacher. Duh! Sorry you donât want to teach this class, but suck it up and take a little pride in your work. Given the dearth of job openings for philosophers, you may just end up teachingâŠso try to get good at it!</p>
<p>WHY wonât ANYBODY do the work thatâs EXPECTED OF THEM???</p>
<p>Iâm tired of taking heat for you people. You need to pull your weight or at least communicate that you need help; I canât design everything for you and coordinate everything for you. When I do, it doesnât teach you anything. When I donât, then I get in trouble.</p>
<p>If it wasnât bad enough that two of us share a small office, next week we get an intern - so now THREE of us can share an office. If I hadnât told you to think about where sheâs gonna sit or how sheâs going to access the network, sheâd have walked in Tuesday to find no desk and no way to use her laptop. Iâm dying to see how this works out - sheâs a grad student, and you (her boss/supposed teacher & mentor) are the proud holder of a high school diploma with no significant professional training. You didnât even know what a CV was when her university asked for yours, and when I explained it you proudly told me you havenât written a resume since you got this job 25 years ago. The intern is working on a grad degree in a science field, and the task you want her to do involves organizing data. Itâs a CLERICAL assignment. And it wonât take her anywhere near 6 weeks to do it - maybe 2 weeks tops. Whatâs she supposed to do for the other month? Maybe teach you everything sheâs learned in her field in the past 5 years, so you could actually do your job instead of relying on a computer program that you donât even know how to use?</p>
<p>You have this job for one reason - because an incompetent administrator you were friends with hired you 25 years ago. Will. You. Please. Retire. Already?</p>
<p>And Iâd be gone, except that I made the mistake of asking the wrong person to give me a reference. Meanwhile, I have people from other departments who freely admit that they call me instead of you because you have no idea what youâre doing. You donât even know what you donât know. </p>
<p>FYI - when I DO finally leave, donât ask for a replacement who âknows how to use a computer.â And please⊠stop printing out all your emails, deleting them, and then losing the hard copy!</p>
<p>I would love to meet your daughter and see if she is as perfect as you claim she is. I know some people are born with âgeniusâ stamped on their foreheads (that explains her straight As), but nobody is sprinkled with that much fairy dust. You know nobody else has kids as perfect as she is, so stop bragging!</p>
<p>And STOP saying how you sometimes get âtooâ skinny. Do you honestly think a lot of people have that problem? You are so obnoxious!</p>
<p>Why do I have to be asked for EVERY volunteer project for this department/school? Arenât there 60 or 70 sets of parents in the choir/drama department? The how come I am costume mistress for every play, chair the Invitational committee, work on the p.r. committee, cabaret night committee, coordinate food for weekend practices, and now am asked to sew straps on costumesâŠwhat are all the other moms doing??? Can we share the JOY, please!!!</p>
<p>nicksmtmom - My saying is that it says âschmuckâ across my forehead and thatâs okay, but if it starts saying âdoormatâ then things need to change.</p>
<p>People who are narcissistic really need to get over themselves.</p>