<p>trouble saying "yes" to a pretty girl????? god life is so hard..... (not sarcastic)</p>
<p>When ever I try too hard with guys everything seems to backfire and when I don't try at all and just want to be friends.. boys "fall in love" with me. Seriously I'm not exaggerating. What the hell??? Guys I just wanna be friends with fall too hard, and guys I want don't seem to reciprocate the feeling. Jesus... what's a girl gotta do.? boys...? advice? or what --- i'm totally confused.</p>
<p>First off, don't let your friends fall in love with you. If you see they're starting to cross that line, be straight with them. Tell them you're friends and nothing more. If you let it go without stopping it, they'll fall a lot harder.</p>
<p>As for boys not reciprocating, keep trying and you'll find the right guy. Just don't try too hard, desperate or "easy" girls are turn-offs.</p>
<p>hey man
take it from someone who knows
just act like youre better than them, it drives them wild, im not kidding, girls love arrogant guys who show little to no interest in them and constantly make fun of them
just have a lot of self confidence and dont do anything you wouldnt normally do, pretty soon theyll stop asking you because they realize they cant ask you to do things for them because you wont. or something like that. and trust me, if a girl is asking you favors, you have no chance anyway, so dont do them, unless shes actually a friend, then it your call
yeahhh im the man</p>
<p>"see, that's the problem with girls, they play "hard to get" too much</p>
<p>i mean, seriously, what's the deal"</p>
<p>See, thats the problem with guys, they think girls are playing hard to get.</p>
<p>If a girl acts 'hard to get', ignore her and try someone else. If she is playing, she'll stop playing. If not (likely), you'll be happier.</p>
<p>hey man
take it from someone who knows
just act like youre better than them, it drives them wild, im not kidding, girls love arrogant guys who show little to no interest in them and constantly make fun of them
just have a lot of self confidence and dont do anything you wouldnt normally do, pretty soon theyll stop asking you because they realize they cant ask you to do things for them because you wont. or something like that. and trust me, if a girl is asking you favors, you have no chance anyway, so dont do them, unless shes actually a friend, then it your call
yeahhh im the man</p>
<p>This is true in some cases, but unfortunately I have not found any tried and true method for figuring out girl's behavior. There are some girls who don't go for this kind of thing at all.</p>
<p>I've had that problem. There was this cute blonde in history class that always cheated off my test and ended up getting an even better grade than me since she answered some questions differently. I was getting angry and finally told her to stop it. She made me feel like such a jerk, I felt bad about it for a long time.</p>
<p>woah, she made you feel like a jerk??!?! you felt bad about it??!?!
dude reality check here, SHE was cheating off YOU, youre obviously better than her, tell her to go study or to fornicate herself with a large stick w/e works for you but never ever let any girl push you around!
Or you could go a different route, tell her when the teacher is near that she must be really smart to get such good grades, then later ask her if you guys could have a study session so maybe you could do as well as her =p, who knows what might happen then? You wouldn't tell your girlfriend to stop cheating off you lol...</p>
<p>This is true in some cases, but unfortunately I have not found any tried and true method for figuring out girl's behavior. There are some girls who don't go for this kind of thing at all.</p>
<p>I totally agree with that. A lot of girls (including myself) find that behavior to be somewhat of a turn off. It's cute if a guy does that sometimes, but actually has a REAL side to him, ya know - has some actual depth???, but if a guy acts this way all the time, he's only going to attract those shallow stupid girls. But hey, whatever floats your boat~</p>
<p>yeah obviously you have to be a real person too lol
the point is to get past the acquaintance stage and actually start talking to whoever so you have a chance to show your real side.
however when you just want to hook up for the night at some party or w/e turn it on full blast and no problem...</p>
<p>lol yeah, i spose that's true ;)</p>
<p>damn straight qt
follow my advice man and those pretty girls will have trouble saying anything but yes to you, no matter what you ask them haha</p>
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<p>dys2k6...what sort of things do these so-called "attractive girls" tell you to do? Tieing their shoes, brushing their har, cleaning up after them, carrying their textbooks, etc.?</p>
<p>o wow i didnt even think of that, i thought that the girls wanted to do somethin w/ him</p>
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o wow i didnt even think of that, i thought that the girls wanted to do somethin w/ him
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<p>Yeah, my first instinct was that dys2k6 meant sexual favors. But I know of girls in my hs who treat boys like golden retrievers...it's disgusting!</p>
<p>Girls are so different, all of them. There was this girl at school and she started telling me her boobs were too small and then she was talking to some girls and started kinda pulling up her skirt and they were talking about her underwear showing.</p>
<p>Dang, it was weird.</p>
<p>I've learned from experience that girls in Texas are messed up when it comes to guys.</p>
<p>That's what I'm learning too. And so many of the girls are just drooling over stupid sports guys who couldn't add 1+1. It's unbelievable. I'm not saying all jocks are bad ya know, my best friend in Cali was a jock, but seriously, they aren't that fabulous.</p>
<p>haha you sound jealous man, if those girls only go for the weightlifters then screw them, or just screw them lol</p>
<p>Lol. No I'm not jealous, I'm a good musician and I get girls liking me for that. I'm just amazed that jocks get any attention. I'm not saying they are stealing my attention. If I could make myself exactly who I wanted to be, it would be me, not a jock.</p>
<p>easy... i kinda just start mumbling incoherently... they'll walk away soon enough...</p>