Senior/Freshman: Illegit? :P

<p>Okay so, general question for you guys. I'm a senior (girl), and I reallyyy (well, sort of, I guess) like this freshman guy. Before you judge, I'm 16 (I skipped a grade) and he's an old freshman, so he's already 15.</p>

<p>Creepy? Weird? Slightly okay? :P</p>

<p>The age thing makes it better…and just saying this in an objective way, but usually the guy would be older at that age…I mean, when you say “senior girl, freshman guy” it sounds creepy initially…but if you two are only a year apart, not bad…still kind of weird, but who cares what other ppl think?</p>

<p>I knoww. It sucks being a senior girl because you have such a limited student body to hit on :stuck_out_tongue: Oh weell. College will make up for this. Fingers crossed :)</p>

<p>And he’s like super mature for his age. Not to mention super cute XP</p>

<p>Well it’s only a year and a half-ish (I’m assuming you’re turning 17 this school year), so there’s nothing bad about that. When we think “senior/freshman relationship,” we usually assume standard ages (17 / 14 yo), which is a pretty big age gap.</p>

<p>Sen10rs and F13shmen? Mutant senior fish?</p>

<p>very sexy mutant senior fish.</p>

<p>first. thats gonna suck for college because you do realize until your 18 you are kinda jailbait. Not that a lot of guys will have a problem with that.</p>

<p>Second, this made me laugh not because of your situation (you’re 16, thats fine) but this stupid freshman from another school was playing a joke on me with his friends, he’s 14, and he paid his friend 5 dollars to get my phone number and he acted like he was in love with me, which of course creeped me out. He’s almost 15 and I’m almost 18 and the whole thing was just awkward.</p>

<p>@blackroses: ewwwwwwww creeeeeeeepy. no don’t get me wrong, the majority of freshman are…immature and short and loud and whiny :stuck_out_tongue:
you should totally find a way to get back at him though. :)</p>

<p>Nothing wrong at all!</p>

<p>Oh, I plan to. next time he messages me (he wanted to do a Q and A… yeah weird) I’m totally going to get him, including the fact that on top of all this he even made up a fake name. Also I have senior guy friends at that school so I can scare him a bit. ; )</p>

<p>Regardless of the age difference, senior + freshman automatically means a 3 year difference in most peoples’ minds.</p>

<p>Besides, you’re a senior. What’s the point of starting a relationship when it’s (likely) to end when you go off to college? And having an HS sophomore boyfriend when you’re a freshman college girl is just bizarre, not to mention the fact that it’ll kill your social life.</p>

<p>There are so many cute/hot/tall junior boys at my school. It’s just not fair. Honestly, sometimes I wish I were a grade younger just because. Gahhhhhhhhh, I feel so old.</p>

<p>Agreed with Jamesford. I see no point in dating senior year unless you know the guy is going to the same school as you next year.</p>

<p>Besides, senior year there is enough stuff to worry about without having to worry about silly boys. Especially ones that just started high school- they are at a completely different stage in life, regardless of age.</p>

<p>there’s nothing wrong with relationships within two years, as long as there are similar maturities. I would even go as far to give a three to four year age difference - just no dating middle schoolers while in high school! (there re several people at my school who I’ve heard of doing this… creepers)</p>

<p>age makes it better… but its kinda weird cause you know… cause youre gonna have to explain that to everyone who asks. and there will be who dont ask and will assume the ages are what theyrre supposed to be. good luck ■■■■■</p>

<p>Hmm… Weird when you consider you’ve been in HS for 3+ years, and he’s only just starting…</p>

<p>Age-wise, there’s nothing particularly creepy about it (though usually age gaps are less creepy if the girl is younger, because as we all know, guys mature–much :)–slower). But age isn’t all that goes into the equation. The fact that he’s in another grade, a grade that is just way way different than senior year, could prove to be a difficulty. And you will get crap for this relationship. But I think it’s non-creepy enough, all factors considered, that if you like him and you two click nicely, you should go for it!</p>

<p>Someone’s a cougar :]</p>

<p>Whoa, whoa, looks like you’re robbing the cradle here!
Seriously, though, I think that if you don’t mind explaining yourself to all your friends and stuff, then go ahead. What’s the worst that could happen?</p>