<p>I’m going to be attending SLO as a freshman in less than 2 weeks, and I have wanted to be in a sorority for a very long time, so I plan on rushing the first week of school.</p>
<p>My question is: how important is appearance, especially weight-wise? I’m not fat but I am also not thin, my body is pretty much center of the road average. like 5’4 and 130 pounds. Will this affect what houses I can get in? I’m very nervous. </p>
<p>I think I have all the other qualifications down (community service/leadership abilities, athletic, decent grades, outgoing, etc) but I am really worried about weight.</p>
<p>Thanks! Sorry for the kind of silly question. </p>
<p>AND I know everyone is going to want to say “any sorority that judges you on your body is not worth your time” and while I know that’s true to extent I still want to be able to get in to one of the top sororities at SLO without worrying about my body holding me back.</p>
<p>I think it might benefit you to approach this situation from a different perspective:</p>
<p>What is it that you wish to get out of joining a sorority? (Partying? Friends? Hookups? Study-buddies? Community engagement?)</p>
<p>There are many different types of sororities each will be looking for their own respective qualities. It’s unfortunate that sometimes sororities do judge based on appearance, but it is up to you to decide if those sororities are even worth going for.</p>
<p>During the first week is a great time to explore all your options. Introduce yourself to people and try to make connections. For the sororities that appeal to you, try to find out what they look for in a person. </p>
<p>I mean, a community or academic based sorority (chances are) would not be looking at your appearance as a “qualification”. Who knows, you may have more fun in that type of sorority than others.</p>
<p>Also, a smile goes a long way! It’s contagious
Go for it girl! Have fun, and stay safe.</p>
