Sex and dorms

Colleges and Universities A-Z Flagler College
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<p>Well, this question is a little embarrassing but it's bothering me and I hope someone can help me out.
I know Flagler is strict about keeping the opposite sex out of dorm rooms, but what do people... do? I mean, unless 100% of students living on-campus are celibate (ha), the sex has to happen somewhere! I know this may seem frivolous, but I don't want to have to get a hotel room every time my boyfriend comes up for the day. Surely someone more clever than I has ways to get around this...</p>

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<p>Can't wait to read these posts. My nephew, who is totally girl crazy (a nice way to put it) currently attends an all boys college, and is looking to transfer to this school. He's a skateboarding, beach loving dude. </p>

<p>Anyway, lots of his friends are transferring to this college, so I went to their website to check it out. I took notice of their coed rules, and I'm thinking he's not aware of this policy. </p>

<p>Oh, wait, just reread your post. You're a girl! Oh, my gosh, my nephew will definitely want to go to this college.</p>

<p>JUST KIDDING!</p>

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<p>Sorry for the silly post above! Sleep depraved.</p>

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<p>Haha, yeah, he might find it a bit of a problem too! I've been thinking about this far too much. I see my options as 1) hotel room, very pricey for poor college students, 2) a car parked in a private area and hoping nobody sees us - good luck during tourist seasons, or 3) hunting for a friend with an apartment who is very generous with their room (just kidding!). I really hope someone comes along with better ideas, as I'm not digging the ones I've come up with!</p>

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<p>while your question is a normal and realistic one, perhaps Flagler isn't the college for you. They are VERY strict about enforcing their poilicies, especially the dry campus and dorm situation from what I am told. I have heard of people transferring out after the first year just because of these things.</p>

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<p>My suggestions are:

  1. Wait until your roommate goes to class. I know it’s scary, but if they’re in a class, I highly doubt they will come back early.
  2. Make an agreement with your roommate. It’s hard sometimes, but as long as you make a pact, you should be fine.
  3. Talk to friends. I know it sounds crazy, but sometimes people are accepting. My boyfriend handed a friend his keys yesterday simply because his girlfriend was coming out for the day. I have found that guys are much more open with each other on this level and are more likely to do such things.
  4. Get creative. I know people that have had sex in the school library, the back of a movie theater, the back of a car in a parking lot, the dorm showers, the bathroom of a house. You name it, I’ve heard of someone doing it there. Okay maybe not anywhere, but a lot of places. Haha.</p>

<p>Hope this helps.</p>

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<p>Don’t live on campus? Or does Flagler require you to live there?</p>