Sexile :(

<p>My roommate's girlfriend is coming over this weekend, and I've been given advance warning. My question- where am I supposed to go? Has this happened to anyone else? :confused:</p>

<p>Sleep in the laundry room :)</p>

<p>That's a thought. I'd been thinking the library. ;)</p>

<p>cant u sleep in a friends room on the floor?</p>

<p>stay and film?</p>

<p>and send the clips to me!:)</p>

<p>So you need a place for FRI/SAT & SUN? Don't you have a common lounge where kids sleep for this very reason? Every school is different but lots of kids use the common lounges that have big couches etc. Grab your blanky & pillow.<br>
Are you getting access to your room at all?</p>

<p>Charge your roommate enough $$$ to purchase a sleeping bag and stay with someone else in your dorm. Maybe someone's roommate is going home for the weekend. Dorm policy may prohibit sleeping overnight in the common lounge, game room or computer lab.</p>

<p>Forget about the laundry room, kitchen, library, etc. You're a human being, not the family pet!</p>

<p>You define your in & out privileges to the room you are paying $7k-$10k a year for! You can come and go as you please in order to exchange clothes, books, etc.</p>

<p>Why don't you let your roommate know when you will be out of the room? Let him be the one to adapt to your schedule. They can do whatever while you aren't there. If they have sex all day, they ought to be able to sleep at night (if you don't mind her in the room).</p>

<p>Here's an alternate idea. Maybe your roommate can borrow the room or apartment of another student who will be away for the weekend.</p>

<p>OK just one question: so you have no hotel near or on campus? Your roommate could at least make a time schedule with you I can agree w/ that.</p>

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<p>Why should warblers have to pay for a hotel room, however? Make the roomie pay!</p>

<p>I didn't say warblers should pay. I said it would be unusual to NOT have a hotel near campus and why didn't roomie set up his love shack at the hotel and not the dorm room? I cannot imagine how much respect this loverboy has for the girlfriend if he isn't willing to take her to a decent hotel. Just my opinion here. Maybe he needs to grow up and try sleeping in something other than an XL single with a coed bathroom down the hall.........how sexy huh?</p>

<p>Ohhhh, I gotcha now. Sorry. I thought you were suggesting that warblers go to the hotel.</p>

<p>Ugh, I'm tired. Too much Japanese...bleh.</p>

<p>one option is for roomie to offer the hotel to warblers for the weekend but I doubt that is gonna happen as warblers seems like the sexile isn't cause to stand up for one's rights.</p>

<p>warblersrule86, are you and your roommie on good terms with each other? If so, the two of you should be able to work out any issues in advance of his girlfriend arriving.</p>

<p>Hopefully, you are cool with each other. Just don't "give the store (or in this case, your room) away" to the point that you are 100% inconvenienced. </p>

<p>Keep us posted!</p>

<p>haha, come on hazmat, you know how we guys are. Roomie has to parade his girlfriend around the dorm this weekend to prove his manhood. They can't hide out in a hotel or motel somewhere.</p>

<p>It's a guy thing!</p>

<p>Hold on here...</p>

<p>So basically he's kicking you out of your own dorm room that you payed to be in for the semester/year so that his girlfriend who hasn't can stay in there for 2 nights with him? I say be assertive about it and work something out where you can still be in there yet give him the time he needs.</p>

<p>The OP hasn't clarified whether his roomate has demanded that he be out of their dorm for the entire weekend or just one or two nights or what.</p>

<p>Haha, there is nothing more funky than coming back to a room where people have just done the deed. Maybe warbler is better off staying with a dorm mate until roommie has aired out the room!</p>

<p>They're not going to be having sex the whole night. Just give them an hour or two each day and chill with a friend during that time. Don't let him kick you out for the whole weekend.</p>