My list was originally 5 colleges: William and Mary (deferred me ED1), Bryn Mawr College (deferred me ED2), Gettysburg, and 2 safeties. I like Gettysburg, but I liked Bryn Mawr more. William and Mary’s said a deferment is basically a polite rejection, so I’m not pursuing that track any longer. But Bryn Mawr’s letter said they deferred me either because they’re waiting for 1st semester grades, or because they want to compare me to the general applicant pool. I can’t know which reason they’re waiting, but this year I’ve pulled mostly Bs (I’m taking the hardest curriculum offered at my school - there are 8 class periods total and I’m taking 10 classes because I got approved to take online APs) so if they’re waiting for 1st semester grades I doubt it’ll help me much. But part of me still really wants to hold out hope for Bryn Mawr - they said in the message that they accept a decent amount of deferred applicants RD. Am I being unrealistic? Should I give up hope on BMC and apply ED2 to Gettysburg? They emailed me saying if I filled out an ED waiver by February 1st I would be eligible. I would rather be at Bryn Mawr, but I don’t want to pass up a chance at another good school while holding out for the hope I’d get into another.
Alternatively, are there any schools like the above 3 that you would recommend I apply to? My mom is suggesting I apply to more since I don’t want to end up at my safeties, but I just can’t find anywhere I like as much. I actually like TCU some (although I’d like to avoid religious colleges in general) but my parents aren’t letting me go as far as Texas. I can go most anywhere from Massachussettes down through South Carolina.