<p>So I just finished my first semester of college and I feel like I didn't make many friends. I made a handful of acquaintances, but nobody I'm really close to. I lived at UCF in the towers (with my own room) and I was in a long distance relationship (I drove back home nearly every week to spend time with my girlfriend). And I started a job at the same time as school. And the thing is I'm not an antisocial loner. I had a lot of friends in high school and I can say that I made some good friends with my coworkers. I just feel really lonely without having any really close friends anymore. Obviously I plan on changing things next semester, so I was wondering if you people had any advice on what I should do? I'll participate in more school things, maybe join a club, and not leave so often (my current relationship is pretty much dying right now...). My biggest question though is, would it be worth it to change rooms into a more social dorm housing (ie, Nike, Libra, etc). Something I've noticed is that a lot of people in the double room dorms know their dorm mates a lot better and do more social things as a community. While the people in towers (single rooms) are much more antisocial. I almost never communicated or hung out with my roommates because they're super antisocial and hide alone in their rooms ALL the time. I'm just afraid I might make a mistake in case I get a roommate who I dislike but I have to share a room with. And I like to have my privacy sometimes. Do you guys have any opinions on what I should do?</p>
<p>GET INVOLVED.</p>
<p>Seriously.</p>
<p>Well, yeah. I plan on actually getting involved and stuff. I guess my main question is would it be worthwhile to change dorms? I don’t know what housing you guys have lived in, but I don’t really like my room situation and it’s kind of quiet and boring in the towers… And 2 of my roommates are kind of awkward to be around since they don’t talk and hide in their rooms all day. I never like coming back to my dorm. Anyways, I’m not here to complain; I just want opinions on whether or not it would be worth it to try changing dorms or is it just that “grass is always greener” mindset?</p>
<p>My son decided on the Libra dorm (he is a freshman) and his social life has been booming. That whole pod had a lot of fun, almost TOO much fun for studying’s sake during fall term. I don’t see how anyone could not make friends in one of those dorms! The bonus is there is always someone in a room or the common room to eat with, study with…</p>
<p>That being said, DS is ready to be in an apartment for sophomore year. He has made friends, but he wants some space to himself and a quieter environment. He said they have all started feeling that way, and even some roommates were not getting along by the time Christmas break started.</p>
<p>TheTicks is right. Involvement is key.</p>
<p>I highly suggest changing dorms. I’m a freshmen, as well, and met a clutter of people who stay in the towers. All have told us it was a mistake, on their part, as hardly anyone talks or gets to know each other. While the towers are nice, they’re more for older students who have already established their group of friends, and need not worry about meeting new people. You’re much better off in Libra, in my honest opinion, choosing pod style. I’m in Nike, and while I love the dorms and my suitemates (All of whom I’m very close to, my best friends) that hall in general is not very social. With pod style, you’re basically forced to meet people, because you won’t be able to get through the Pod without running into someone on your floor. If you can’t change dorms, then I suggest attending parties, social gatherings, etc. I have met pretty much ALL of my friends through social gatherings, and all of them are really great people. Also, you have to make the effort to meet people. As an out of state student, I knew it was a huge thing on my list, because I was walking into UCF knowing no one. So just make sure you make a good effort:)</p>